Raising self esteem in children is one of the most important roles parents undertake. But family members, teachers and those people our children know and come into contact with also have a responsibility to ensure the self esteem in the children we care for is always at a high level. But unfortunately, this is not always the case. This article offers some easy ways to raise self esteem in children of all ages.

Perhaps the most important aspects is to be able to identify when the self esteem of a child is low. To help identify these, here are a few tell-tail signs:

* Having problems in school with the consequent low pass levels in tests.
* Finding it difficult to make friends or retain existing ones.
* Not taking part in family activities as they previously did.
* Speaking negatively about themselves.
* Easily distracted and have frequent mood swings.

So how can parents help solve these issues as easily and as swiftly as possible?

First of all, parents have to acknowledge that the self esteem of their child actually exists. The avoidance of denial is crucial. This should be quickly followed by taking positive action. It is important that parents discover what is going on in your child's mind that is lowering their self-esteem. To do this you will need to understand your child better and maybe read about the subject as necessary.

You need to also look at yourself and determine your own feelings as to why your child has become this way. What is or has gone on in your life that may be disturbing your child? This is not a time for partners to blame each other, but to explore possibilities and to take action.

Parents often set goals for themselves which is good, but fail to help children set them too. This is an important omission and needs to be addressed.

One of the key components is any relationship is the need for good and effective communications. If these are not set up well between parents and child, the child can feel isolated. It is imperative that this is sensitively handled so the child knows that their parents or other responsible individuals are always available during the day and at night to discuss matters or receive comfort.

Poor self esteem in children is hugely distressing for a child and so it is vital it is recognised and acted upon so the low self esteem of the child can be quickly raised. Your child needs your help and within a very short period of time, by addressing the issues in a warm and supportive way, your child will be back to their happy and playful ways.

Get the help you need: specific yet easy to follow guidance on raising self esteem in children can be found at:
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