Toddler temper tantrums are a common occurrence.
As a child's development progresses, especially between the ages of one and four, you might find your angelic little toddler changes from a gentle and loving child into a bad tempered brat.
Here are some ways to cope with the situation.
You see, your toddler has evolved and has now not content with accepting your authority, or your rules.
He will want his own say in what he does and does not do.
Soon the situation will evolve into a contest of wills between the two of you.
Why do toddler temper tantrums occur? A toddler has a tantrum to attract attention and try to get what he wants.
Naturally, if this usually works, he will continue to throw tantrums.
The truth is, if the tantrum never produces the desired results, your little toddler will soon give up this horrible habit.
So, do not despair.
Here are some tips you could do when your child is in the midst of a temper tantrum fit, without compromising your position as a parent in control.
Be Disciplined- As a parent we have to be firm, do not give in.
Yes, it could be exasperating and embarrassing.
But your toddler must learn the difference between good behavior from bad behavior.
Ignore Him - Most tantrum-throwers are trying to attract your attention.
If you don't give him that attention that he is seeking, he will soon lose interest and stop the tantrum.
But his safety must not be compromised.
Distract Him - It is prudent to distract him.
Perhaps start to play with a new game or toy.
Take him away from the scene or room, or go outside for a walk.
Do whatever it takes to your toddler's mind off the source of the tantrum.
Toddler temper tantrums are part and parcel of a child's development.
They can't be completely avoided but with some informed aids and guide, temper tantrums frequency could be reduced.
Be an informed and educated parent on this onerous problem to cope and manage your temper tantrum throwing toddler.
Remember a happy child is a happy parent!