Penpals

• 1). Use the online tools available through a penpal website. These websites connect potential pen pals. Individuals who want to meet a penpal register through these websites and receive email contact information for suggested penpals. Penpal Gate, Interpals and Penpal World match people throughout the world who wish to start a penpal relationship.
  
  
• 2). Establish your own personal profile by submitting the information that the website requires. Submit information about your interests, hobbies, sex and age. If you intend to establish a penpal relationship with someone by corresponding in a foreign language or with someone who lives in a foreign country, include that information in your profile.
  
  
• 3). Review the list of suggested penpals that the site sends you. Select a penpal and begin writing.
  
  

Military Penpals

• 1). Establish a penpal relationship with an individual serving in the military. Contact Military Penpals, Milpals or EmailOurMilitary to locate a serviceperson who wants to begin a penpal correspondence with a civilian penpal.
  
  
• 2). Register with a service that connects civilian penpals with people serving in the military. Each site requires that you provide some general personal information before they make the penpal connection between you and a soldier. The sites then provide you with a soldier's snail mail or email address.
  
  
• 3). Review any military rules or regulations listed on the site. Before you begin a penpal relationship with a member of the military you must understand the types of regulations under which soldiers operate when they receive or write letters and emails.
  
  

Networking

• 1). Use networking tools to locate people who express interest in beginning a penpal correspondence. Post a notice on a social network site to alert your friends to your interest in finding a penpal. Ask friends to suggest names of potential penpals.
  
  
• 2). Access addresses, both email and snail mail, that you receive from your contacts and friends.
  
  
• 3). Write to your friends' contacts to ascertain if they would like to begin a penpal correspondence. Write to them a few times to ensure that they would serve as a good penpal for you.