Sometimes learning to talk to women isn't the easiest process. If you are a normally shy person, or simply don't have a whole lot of experience speaking to women, it can be a pretty difficult hurdle to jump over. This is especially true if you are looking to begin a relationship or trying to pick up a woman in a bar or a club, which can be particularly hostile environments in which to learn how to talk to women. Use these tips to make speaking with women easier for yourself.

Confidence Confidence is a critical trait to have when you are trying to talk to women. A good self-esteem is really important to a woman as it shows that you are comfortable with yourself, and therefore she can be comfortable with you as well. Have you ever been around someone that is always on edge or apologizes for everything that they do?

Having low confidence in oneself is almost tantamount to being a failure in life, so you'll want to convey the most of it that you can. In order to convey confidence, is helps to be comfortable with yourself to begin with. Your posture is very important , since a glance is sometimes all it takes to judge whether or not you look comfortable in your own shows. Stand straight, walk with purpose, and keep your hands at your sides during a conversation. Only make gestures when you are trying to make a certain point, as fidgeting with your hands will show anxiety and make people around you nervous.

Practice One of the best ways to get good at speaking with women is simply to practice. Before you go up and talk to the woman of your dreams though, it helps to try speaking with people that you have no invested interest in. This includes anyone and everyone that you have no romantic relationship with- the cashier at the grocery store, your haircutter, people you work with, etc. Talking to women that you are friends with will help you hone your conversation skills for when they really matter, and you will have less anxiety in talking to that certain someone when the time comes.,

Also, you can get rid of some of the approach anxiety that comes with speaking to attractive women in bars and clubs with this method as well. Your fear of failure will start to dwindle as you approach more and more gorgeous women, because you will have been put in that position before and nothing is new to you. So, you will have naturally accumulated responses to virtually any topic of conversation, and will be a crafted wordsmith. When you are first starting out though, you might want to keep some canned conversation topics that you can use at any time the conversation starts to ie out. This can really help save you if you get into a jam.

For example, think of some of the things that you like to talk about or are good at. This will help you elaborate more and keep the conversation going when you can contribute information.