Get Your Partner To Talk Dirty
There is nothing hotting they steamy dirty talk. It turns you on, and adds a fun dynamic ANY any situation.
However, your partner is painfully shy, and quiet as a mouse.
What should you do?
Should you tell them what you really want (which is some hot dirty talk) and chance them becoming completely embarrased?
OR
Do you hold your tongue and never experience what you want?
The answer is, you get them involved very subtly. In the past, most people never get to express how important to them something so small as talking dirty can be. Let's face it, you ARE putting a lot of pressure on someone when you ask them to talk dirty to you. It is terrifying for some.
But the reality is, talking dirty is just a form of expressing yourself. The term 'dirty talk' initially throws people off, which is why we like to look at it as 'sexy talk', which can be applied in every facet of communication between two lovers. It can be used all the time in things such as texting, emails, phone sex, and definitely in the bedroom.
From the research we've done over the last 3 years that a lot of people who get embarrassed and don't say anything in the bedroom don't hate talking dirty, they just honestly feel they have no clue what to say.
Here's where you come in...
A great way to get your partner involved, is to ask engaging questions. Nothing too hard, but things that get their imagination running wild.}
In the beginning, ask them simple "yes" or "no" questions such as:
"How does that feel?"
"Do you love how I do this to you?"
Eventually begin making your questions include a more thoughtful response where they need to use their imagination:
"What do you enjoy the most..."
Over time, they will begin to enjoy talking dirty and start feeling comfortable with you, and once that happens, so will their confidence.
If you do nothing than that's exactly what is going to happen to your sex life. So go for it! You'l be glad you did :)
I just want you to realize the relationships AREN'T easy. Nobody knows what the opposite sex wants. The only way to know is to learn and practice. It takes time and energy, but the reward is well-worth it!
You basically get a superpower that will enable you to completely shock and satisfy your partner whenever you choose. You will make them feel like no other person has felt before, and you will please them like no one else has before, just because you discovered out how to properly talk dirty with our hard work.
And here's the best part... It doesn't even matter if you've been together for five, ten, or twenty years! Instead of your sex life fizzling out, it will become hotter than it's ever been!
Stay sexy,
Evan Michaels
However, your partner is painfully shy, and quiet as a mouse.
What should you do?
Should you tell them what you really want (which is some hot dirty talk) and chance them becoming completely embarrased?
OR
Do you hold your tongue and never experience what you want?
The answer is, you get them involved very subtly. In the past, most people never get to express how important to them something so small as talking dirty can be. Let's face it, you ARE putting a lot of pressure on someone when you ask them to talk dirty to you. It is terrifying for some.
But the reality is, talking dirty is just a form of expressing yourself. The term 'dirty talk' initially throws people off, which is why we like to look at it as 'sexy talk', which can be applied in every facet of communication between two lovers. It can be used all the time in things such as texting, emails, phone sex, and definitely in the bedroom.
From the research we've done over the last 3 years that a lot of people who get embarrassed and don't say anything in the bedroom don't hate talking dirty, they just honestly feel they have no clue what to say.
Here's where you come in...
A great way to get your partner involved, is to ask engaging questions. Nothing too hard, but things that get their imagination running wild.}
In the beginning, ask them simple "yes" or "no" questions such as:
"How does that feel?"
"Do you love how I do this to you?"
Eventually begin making your questions include a more thoughtful response where they need to use their imagination:
"What do you enjoy the most..."
Over time, they will begin to enjoy talking dirty and start feeling comfortable with you, and once that happens, so will their confidence.
If you do nothing than that's exactly what is going to happen to your sex life. So go for it! You'l be glad you did :)
I just want you to realize the relationships AREN'T easy. Nobody knows what the opposite sex wants. The only way to know is to learn and practice. It takes time and energy, but the reward is well-worth it!
You basically get a superpower that will enable you to completely shock and satisfy your partner whenever you choose. You will make them feel like no other person has felt before, and you will please them like no one else has before, just because you discovered out how to properly talk dirty with our hard work.
And here's the best part... It doesn't even matter if you've been together for five, ten, or twenty years! Instead of your sex life fizzling out, it will become hotter than it's ever been!
Stay sexy,
Evan Michaels
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