Become a Master at Rephrasing and Multiply Your Tarot Reading Success
Rephrasing the client's question can be tricky.
It can make or break a tarot reading experience.
So tarot reader must know how to do it adeptly.
To repeat back the client's concerns and question in their own words makes them feel you are really listening to them.
They will feel important and acknowledged.
But when you rephrase their question into a poorly,clumsy worded question, this will get the reading negative right off the bat.
The clients will be offended.
I t will make them feel their question was inadequate and inappropriate.
It will make them think that you know more than they know themselves.
This will get them distant, just when you want them to be open and receptive during the course of their reading.
Why rephrase anyway? To rephrase a clients question is to skillfully maneuver yourself to not answer a question that is out of your code of ethics or you want to avoid a concrete prediction or you just simply don't want to answer an uncomfortable question.
There are some tarot readers who don't do an absolute predictive,pregnancy or timing information readings (among others).
There are nice, subtle and friendly ways to rephrase a question and with a lot of practice you can be an expert at it.
Firstly, you can be honestly open to the client and let them know you have concerns about the question without dismissing her /his original question.
Secondly, read and interpret the individual cards and the cards accordingly to their positions.
The clients will be able to discern the clues and overall influence of their situation without directly answering them.
Another way, is to pass the question along to another helpful fellow tarot reader.
Many readers are happy to do them.
You can also explain to the client and suggest to them, to rephrase their own question.
This is a wiser way than you doing them,because they are the ones doing the rephrasing themselves.
It's their own words not the reader's.
To rephrase means carefully re-word the original questions in a more specific and more empowering manner, so delicate care must be taken.
The tarot does not have a limitation to need a rephrasing.
Avoid blurting out the term"rephrasing" to clients, even if what you are actually doing is rephrasing.
The word itself is dis-empowering, Some examples of good rephrasing are 1.
"I find i have clarity in my reading if i focus on one question at a time.
" 2.
"Based on the information you told me, I would like to ask the question this way...
" Now go...
invent some of your own and practice.
It can make or break a tarot reading experience.
So tarot reader must know how to do it adeptly.
To repeat back the client's concerns and question in their own words makes them feel you are really listening to them.
They will feel important and acknowledged.
But when you rephrase their question into a poorly,clumsy worded question, this will get the reading negative right off the bat.
The clients will be offended.
I t will make them feel their question was inadequate and inappropriate.
It will make them think that you know more than they know themselves.
This will get them distant, just when you want them to be open and receptive during the course of their reading.
Why rephrase anyway? To rephrase a clients question is to skillfully maneuver yourself to not answer a question that is out of your code of ethics or you want to avoid a concrete prediction or you just simply don't want to answer an uncomfortable question.
There are some tarot readers who don't do an absolute predictive,pregnancy or timing information readings (among others).
There are nice, subtle and friendly ways to rephrase a question and with a lot of practice you can be an expert at it.
Firstly, you can be honestly open to the client and let them know you have concerns about the question without dismissing her /his original question.
Secondly, read and interpret the individual cards and the cards accordingly to their positions.
The clients will be able to discern the clues and overall influence of their situation without directly answering them.
Another way, is to pass the question along to another helpful fellow tarot reader.
Many readers are happy to do them.
You can also explain to the client and suggest to them, to rephrase their own question.
This is a wiser way than you doing them,because they are the ones doing the rephrasing themselves.
It's their own words not the reader's.
To rephrase means carefully re-word the original questions in a more specific and more empowering manner, so delicate care must be taken.
The tarot does not have a limitation to need a rephrasing.
Avoid blurting out the term"rephrasing" to clients, even if what you are actually doing is rephrasing.
The word itself is dis-empowering, Some examples of good rephrasing are 1.
"I find i have clarity in my reading if i focus on one question at a time.
" 2.
"Based on the information you told me, I would like to ask the question this way...
" Now go...
invent some of your own and practice.
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