A Mom’S Guide on Working and Taking Care of the Children
Motherhood is an endless responsibility that starts from the day a woman becomes pregnant until the child has a family of his own -- some even extending beyond that period. More often than not, a mom's work will carry on to her grandchildren.
If you are pressured with balancing your professional and parental duties, maybe your choice of strategies is wrong. There is no concrete method for successfully doing this. A certain method can work for one mother but not for the next.
If you have reasons to believe your current strategy is failing you, here are some essential tips that might help.
€ Set a specific work schedule and stick to it lest your job requires answering very important phone calls. If not, only answer calls, emails, and messages on schedule. Taking care of the children should be free from any distractions; otherwise, it will lead to low productivity. Additionally, inform each member of the household of your work schedules so you will not be interrupted.
€ Get the family involved. Do not try to solve things on your own. Talk with your loved ones about your problems so you can think of a better solution. You might be amazed by how things can turn out for the better. Designating simple tasks to your children not only boosts their confidence but also teaches them the importance of appreciating, understanding, and respecting their mom's duties.
€ Consciously do the transition. If it is family time, focus your attention and energy to your family. The same principle should also apply for work hours. Before ending the schedule, list down the tasks you have to do the next day. Never leave your desk or log out for work if you have not written down your list. A quick nap in between the transition will also help reenergize yourself and focus on what to do next.
€ Go for quality not quantity. Leave professional stuff at the office if you are bonding with your loved ones. It will also affect your children if they see you stressed in front of them when you are supposedly spending quality time together.
€ Schedule some time for yourself. Bear in mind that you are only human. You get tired and need revitalization. Without this, you will also be less productive in taking care of your family and work. Find time in your busy timetable for self-pampering and relaxation. This is not selfishness. This is actually beneficial not only for yourself but also for your family so you can give more in all that you do.
If you are pressured with balancing your professional and parental duties, maybe your choice of strategies is wrong. There is no concrete method for successfully doing this. A certain method can work for one mother but not for the next.
If you have reasons to believe your current strategy is failing you, here are some essential tips that might help.
€ Set a specific work schedule and stick to it lest your job requires answering very important phone calls. If not, only answer calls, emails, and messages on schedule. Taking care of the children should be free from any distractions; otherwise, it will lead to low productivity. Additionally, inform each member of the household of your work schedules so you will not be interrupted.
€ Get the family involved. Do not try to solve things on your own. Talk with your loved ones about your problems so you can think of a better solution. You might be amazed by how things can turn out for the better. Designating simple tasks to your children not only boosts their confidence but also teaches them the importance of appreciating, understanding, and respecting their mom's duties.
€ Consciously do the transition. If it is family time, focus your attention and energy to your family. The same principle should also apply for work hours. Before ending the schedule, list down the tasks you have to do the next day. Never leave your desk or log out for work if you have not written down your list. A quick nap in between the transition will also help reenergize yourself and focus on what to do next.
€ Go for quality not quantity. Leave professional stuff at the office if you are bonding with your loved ones. It will also affect your children if they see you stressed in front of them when you are supposedly spending quality time together.
€ Schedule some time for yourself. Bear in mind that you are only human. You get tired and need revitalization. Without this, you will also be less productive in taking care of your family and work. Find time in your busy timetable for self-pampering and relaxation. This is not selfishness. This is actually beneficial not only for yourself but also for your family so you can give more in all that you do.
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