Uniform Dating Using The Hunter Gene
Men are a complex sub-species of the human genre. You think that us ladies are complicated? Men are just as complicated too, if not more.
But there's one thing that we women need to understand in men. It is that in all men, there exists a gene that is activated almost the instant that he is born. What is this gene, you ask? This gene is called the "hunter" gene.
This hunter gene is the one responsible for the "macho" assetiveness of guys. It gives them this weird compulsion to act all manly and tough and "macho" in front of women and men alike. Sometimes, this makes them even resemble something akin to a "caveman." But that's beside the point.
If everyday men have this gene, don't you think that your military singles have a double helix strand of this gene? Most probably yes. Inherent nature provided him with one strand, his occupation and circumstances provide him the second strand.
So what can we do about this "hunter gene" that seems to drive men into proving that they are macho (-ish) all the time?
For one thing, this can truly help during the courtship ritual stage. Courtship has its own idiosyncrasies, its own traditions. Things would be so much more simple if men and women just hook up together without undergoing an entire process or stage, right? Unfortunately, life doesn't give that simple option, and instead provides this exciting courtship paradox that has, over the ages, defined the actions of men and women.
Now, that being said, the question is whether your man, with his hunter genes would allow you to become aggressive in your own way? The answer to that is definitely a YES. But remember not to overdo it.
Women can be aggressive in the sense that they can contact their army singles in uniform dating first. But also, give him space for the chase. If you push yourself at them too much, or become TOO aggressive, then they won't feel the thrill of the chase, and would easily get bored and look for someone who is harder to catch.
Act coy, but don't be hard-to-get. And yes, there's a difference between the two of them. Coy means not making things too simple for them because they won't feel the thrill of victory as much if you give them a few obstacles every now and then. Give him small victories slowly, one at a time, like answering their emails or spending a FEW minutes to chat with them, so they can get their taste of success. Remember that giving a few teasers would make them hungry for the real thing. And this is where you hook them. Wait for the right time to opportunely say your sweet YES to them.