When I think back, God has put four people in my girls' lives to give them what I couldn't give to them - physically and naturally. It is proclaimed by some women that they are all their children need. These women believe they can be both mother and father. I totally disagree with this statement. There is no way one person can be both mother and father. I speak from experience!

Almighty God has set my older son and daughter, Andrew and Angelina, to help in this matter. Also a young man and a young lady, by the name of Justin James and Resha, respectively. Both have been so fulfilling! Justin is like a son to me.

The four aforementioned have brought many clothes and shoes, games, etc. the girls desired, taken them places to broaden their outlook on visiting the outside world. For example, the girls have gone to Orlando many times to shop for clothes, shoes, etc., rent a very nice room for the weekend to swim and relax totally during the weekend, visit theme parks and other events (Busch Gardens, Adventure Island, The Fair, Mississippi, Georgia, take them to appointments, arrange important parties for them, etc.) It is so much I could add to this list!

One of my sons and all my daughters but one, who I didn't raise, survived the ordeal of not having a father figure around. They are full of heart, is well known for their grand mannerisms and ability to want to be productive in life. If you speak with them, they will confess that they missed having a dad in their lives. My other son truly had a great need for a father figure in his life. I hear more comments on how well-mannered he is and he is very smart. He can fix anything electronically wrong with it. There is a reason for everything, including why he went the path he chose. God has him in his hands.

These four people have hearts of gold. Andrew gave me his car and bought another one. Andrew is a true son! Angelina has been there for her sisters. Resha takes out time with Ayesha. Ayesha needs this extra comfort. Angelina has a family of her own, but that doesn't stop her from giving to the girls in every way. Justin takes special time with all the girls, with his busy schedule of traveling international to play basketball. Justin has goals and knows what he wants to do. They, indeed, see all these positive attributes the four offer.

The teenage stage is probably the most crucial in a child's life. The help of Andrew, Angelina, Resha, and Justin have made their experiences so memorable, grand, and positive. I desire to say "Thank You" from my heart!