You may feel as though you want your ex girlfriend to want you again beyond anything else in the world right at this time. Rather than sinking into the black pit of despair, remember that you are capable fix your broken heart and get her back in your life. If you have been sitting at the TV eating junk to try to forget your memories of her even as the burning question "How do I get my ex girlfriend back?" is replaying over and over in your mind, stop doing what you're doing right now.

Instead, do what's outlined in these three simple steps to get her to love you again..

1. She needs space, so let her have it

You may feel that it is exceptionally tempting to grab your phone and call or text your ex girlfriend. That is an excellent method to push her away. When she is ready, SHE will be the one calling you. Right now, do not call or text her for any single reason.

2. Use the time alone to your advantage

The reality is that we live in a world whereWe actually live in a world where we hate being alone, but actually to be alone is something many people could use. Taking time to discover yourself is a crucial element in getting her interested in you again - and by doing things that make you happy, you won't even think about how much you're hurting.

A breakup is painful, but you can use this time focus your energy on being with someone who especially needs it: you.

3. Gently bring her back into your life

Remember how when you first started dating your ex girlfriend, you just learned without thinking every minute detail about her? Like what kind of food she enjoys, her favorite types of music, what activities she likes to do, her favorite place to visit.

This is vital knowledge you have. By taking initiative to do things that show her you know what makes her tick and care enough to plan fun things you can do with her, she'll just want you back right away.