Not all people who break up would like the situation to remain that way. Indeed, a high percentage of those in broken relationships are interested in making up. Due to this reason, there are very many books that have been written to give advice on how to get back with your ex. Perhaps you have read some of these books and have been disappointed. Either the authors were talking about people you are completely incompatible with, or they were out to make some quick cash. However, you should not give up on your search for how to win your ex girlfriend back.

There are indeed a number of useful methods that can help you to win her back. All the powerful strategies do not try to recreate you into someone you are not. You need to remain your true self in order to succeed. It is that real you that your ex fell in love with in the first place, and trying to change it is more likely to be counterproductive. Here are some of the things you should do in order to get back with your ex girlfriend.

Give her some time

If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, you should avoid any hasty moves. Give her some time alone. This will work for the good of both of you. You will have time to reflect on the issue well. Then you will be able to lay out an effective strategy that is bound to succeed. On the other hand, giving your ex girlfriend some time will provide her with the opportunity to miss you.

Once you have spent some time apart, you will be better placed to get back together with even more passion. As a result, your renewed relationship will be stronger.

Take advantage of surprise

Think of a way in which you can give your ex girlfriend a pleasant surprise. For instance, after you have been apart for some time, you can give her a call when she least expects it and show your appreciation.

Before you take this step, you should clearly think about what you are appreciating her for. It must be something that is very genuine. However, this is not the time to say the thing you are thankful for. State that you would like to give your thanks in person.

You will be able to draw her curiosity as she tries to figure what it is that you are appreciating her for. In the process, she will be thinking about you. She will also be interested in finding out how you intend to express your gratitude.

If you time your surprise call well, there is little chance of your request being turned down, and she will accept to meet with you.