What To Do When Your Child Misbehaves
Are you tired of looking for things to do when you child misbehaves? Are you tired of trying to figure out how to get your child to behave? Do you wonder why nothing works?
For answers to these question please do contact me. There are many complex issues and no two situations are the same. I can help you figure out what to do when your child misbehaves no matter what their age.
For here and now I am providing a list of DOs and DON'Ts. You may find nothing new here, but read on anyway. You may be reminded of something you had forgotten, something may hit you in a new way, or something might occur to you that you had not thought of before about what to do when your child misbehaves.
DO remain calm DON'T lose your cool
DO listen DON'T lecture
DO ask, "What were you thinking" DON'T ask, "Why did you..."
DO enforce the rules DON'T let your kids of the hook
DO hold to the limits DON'T give in
DO be firm DON'T be a door mat
DO be consistent DON'T be inconsistent
DO seek to understand DON'T be judgmental
DO take interest in your child DON'T expect your child to take interest in you
DO give your child attention DON'T expect your child to pay attention
DO ask them how they are feeling DON'T tell them how you are feeling unless asked
DO reassure your child DON'T threaten you child
DO praise you kids DON'T criticize them
DO express concern DON'T express disbelief
DO tell them you love them DON'T tell them how frustrated, annoyed, irritated, hurt you are
DO look them in the eyes DON'T glare at them
DO take responsibility DON'T blame
DO express optimism DON'T express pessimism
DO offer cooperation DON'T expect cooperation
DO remember your child is immature DON'T expect your child to act mature
DO be kind to your child DON'T be mean
DO be forgiving DON'T be resentful
DO express appreciation DON'T expect to be appreciated
DO encourage DON'T discourage
DO ask, "How can you...." DON'T declare, "You can't...."
WHEN YOU CAN'T DO THE ABOVE
DO apologize DON'T make excuses
DO get more information at [http://www.bestparenthelp.info] DON'T hesitate to contact me.
For answers to these question please do contact me. There are many complex issues and no two situations are the same. I can help you figure out what to do when your child misbehaves no matter what their age.
For here and now I am providing a list of DOs and DON'Ts. You may find nothing new here, but read on anyway. You may be reminded of something you had forgotten, something may hit you in a new way, or something might occur to you that you had not thought of before about what to do when your child misbehaves.
DO remain calm DON'T lose your cool
DO listen DON'T lecture
DO ask, "What were you thinking" DON'T ask, "Why did you..."
DO enforce the rules DON'T let your kids of the hook
DO hold to the limits DON'T give in
DO be firm DON'T be a door mat
DO be consistent DON'T be inconsistent
DO seek to understand DON'T be judgmental
DO take interest in your child DON'T expect your child to take interest in you
DO give your child attention DON'T expect your child to pay attention
DO ask them how they are feeling DON'T tell them how you are feeling unless asked
DO reassure your child DON'T threaten you child
DO praise you kids DON'T criticize them
DO express concern DON'T express disbelief
DO tell them you love them DON'T tell them how frustrated, annoyed, irritated, hurt you are
DO look them in the eyes DON'T glare at them
DO take responsibility DON'T blame
DO express optimism DON'T express pessimism
DO offer cooperation DON'T expect cooperation
DO remember your child is immature DON'T expect your child to act mature
DO be kind to your child DON'T be mean
DO be forgiving DON'T be resentful
DO express appreciation DON'T expect to be appreciated
DO encourage DON'T discourage
DO ask, "How can you...." DON'T declare, "You can't...."
WHEN YOU CAN'T DO THE ABOVE
DO apologize DON'T make excuses
DO get more information at [http://www.bestparenthelp.info] DON'T hesitate to contact me.
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