Are you wondering how to get your ex girlfriend to call you? Perhaps you have been calling your ex girlfriend, trying to get in touch with her. But no matter what you do and how many times you call her, you just cannot reach her.

Well, if you want to get your ex girlfriend to call you back, you need to know what you must not do. This is because doing those things will only push your girlfriend away. This means your girlfriend will try harder to avoid you and not answer your phone call.

First, you must not call your girlfriend over and over again. This is simply a sign of desperation. Desperation will never help anyone get their girlfriend back. It will only make your girlfriend want to run away from you.

If you are leaving behind a voicemail, don't say something like:

Hey Helen,

Please. Please call me back! I have been trying to contact you. I really wish to talk to you. Please call back.

Can you see anything wrong with the above message? As mentioned above, desperation never works. When your girlfriend see this message, she will only feel more irritated than before.

If you want your girlfriend to call you back, you should use curiosity and self interest instead. Human beings are curious by nature. Human beings are also more concerned about themselves than others, at least most of the time.

So, you will probably have a better chance if you say something like this:

Hey Helen,

Thank you for what you have done for me. (Note: This is the curiosity part. Helen will wonder what she has done for you. If she wants to find out, she has no choice but to call you back.)

I just want to say thank you to you personally. (Note: This is the self interest part. You want to thank her. She feels good about it. She is more likely to call you back.)

Call me when you are free.

Can you see how much better the above message sounds? Of course, you must not abuse this method or it can backfire on you. Make sure you know what to say and what to do if she really calls you back. If not, it will only make your situation worse.