If you're a plus size woman, you might be suffering from anxiety and insecurity about appearance.
The anxiety leads to a low self-esteem.
And when you have low self-esteem, it affects everything about you and everyone around you.
You don't feel good physically, emotionally and mentally.
Even your social life is affected.
I do think that plus size women did not need to be embarrassed on how they look.
You are who you are.
You just need to stop feeling sorry about yourself and start feeling confident and just be happy.
You can start by wearing a beautiful smile first thing in the morning especially if you possess a pretty face you can show off.
Follow it up by accentuating your look by doing your hair nicely and put on just a little nice make-up that compliments your face.
Put on some fine or fashion jewelry that adds sophistication to your look and something that compliments the clothing and shoes you are wearing for the day.
Then follow it up with a good selection of plus size clothing that makes you look thinner and sexier.
Knowing your body shape makes it easy for you to find the right fit of plus size trendy clothing that accentuates your sexy looking body.
Then of course, wear a pair of shoes that will look nice on your legs, the clothes that you wear and your overall look.
By the time you're ready to go, you will be amazed at just how sexy and appealing you look like.
On top of it all, don't forget to wear that confidence you are hiding from within.
You might be saying, it's easier said than done.
True! But only if you believe it's true.
Accepting the fact that you're heavier than others and you're OK with it is the first step to being happy and confident.
All the rest follows.
Because when you are confident, you are creative enough as to how to make yourself look astonishing in anything you wear.
Plus knowing what kind of accessories, shoes, make-up and plus size fashion clothing you should wear.
It's no difference if you are skinny or regular size.
You just need to find the right wardrobe and accessories that looks right in you.
If that means educating yourself so you know where and how to start, by all means do it.
It is your drive that makes the second step to becoming sexy and attractive.
If you just don't care and feel sorry for yourself all day long is what you do, obviously you will look and feel lousy about yourself.
One good example on the how's and where to start is if you're into celebrities.
Look out for any plus size celebrity that has lots of oozing sex appeal.
Not saying you should be buying that expensive stuff they put on to themselves.
I'm saying look at how they dress up.
What kind of body shape they have.
Is it like yours? If it is, what looks good in them? Be keen on shape, style color and the whole nine yards.
As an example, you can Google these people: Dana Owens aka Queen Latifah, the late Ana Niccole Smith, Kirsty Alley, Emme, Jordin Sparks and many more.
All these women are plus sizes but they invoke pleasing personality.
Or join some online forums that discusses about how to look good when you're plus size.
You can get lots and lots of pointers from many ordinary people like you that suffer the same thing but are doing their homework on how to look better.
You will not believe how many people will give you pointers what works for them and the success they get on their plus size make-over.