Isn't if funny how we always expect people to be the perfect match to us? But never ask ourselves if we are the perfect match for them? Sometimes, we women love to think of what our ideal men would be lik, but we never look at ourselves nor think if we are the ideal women that men would want to love.

To meet Mr. Right, you would have to be Ms. Right first.

So what is the first step to being Ms. Right? It's actually very straight-forward: Get a life.

Do yourself and your future millionaire match by doing this one. It doesn't however mean that you have to completely change yourself into a different person so as to make him love you. Never change for someone else. You don't want to become ANOTHER person but instead a BETTER person for your own purpose. The right man would have to love you as you are, simply for being you, and not for being someone else.

So what did I mean by saying that you have to get a life? I meant that you ought to change yourself into a better person by doing away with bad habits and living a better life. If you haven't finished your education, then go and complete it if you can. Travel around and learn about different cultures and look at how fortunate you are living in the UK and living the life that you have.

For example, if you are a lazy and unproductive person, then get off the couch and start becoming more active. Look at some things that you can do instead of just lazing around. Like, take up a hobby or a sport. Being lazy is not only a bad habit, but it's also bad for your health, both mentally and physically. Getting into more activity would help your body build up better muscles and increase stamina. It would help your mental health because taking up a hobby, like say knitting or cross-stitching, would stimulate your brain into thinking more.

If you find that you are actually quite self-centerd and bratty, take a step back and look around the people around you who are the opposite. In your workplace or neighborhood, there's always that someone who is generous and hard working. Or else, go to a volunteer organisation and observe how they are selflessly serving someone else. This would help encourage you to transform into someone who feels more and who gives back more.

Make an inventory of the bad traits that you have. If you don't know your character defects, then ask your mother, she should be that one person who can be upfront to you about it. If you have a sister, then ask her too, or even a brother and your bestfriend. Learn how to be caring, interesting, and kind. Look around you and model yourself after a woman that you admire, then work hard to eliminate the character defects that you have found out.

Why do you need to get a life? Because it will result to a better you. You need to be happy and satisfied with yourself first before you can think of making someone else happy.