Top 10 Premature Ejaculation Myths Uncovered!
Are you sick and tired of the pressure that you put on yourself because of your premature ejaculation problem?It may not be as bad as you think.
Men try to follow some type of public stigma that we are supposed to be sex machines!You can stop holding your breath as I'm about to blow the lid on the top 10 myths surrounding premature ejaculation and the sexual society that we find ourselves in today...
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 1:Your penis is your most powerful sex organ Reality --> Your mind is your most powerful sex organ, and your skin is your largest one! Yes it's true for both men and women.
The mind is your most powerful sex organ.
This explains the mystery of all those mornings you woke up after a 'wet dream' wondering "wow, how did that happen?" Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 2:'Real men' have sex frequently Reality --> Men have sex less often than they're boasting to their friends.
Sometimes men lie about sex.
Often they lie about how frequently they're 'doing it'.
I want to stress that you shouldn't compare your sex life and performance to others, when it comes to breaking down this myth it is necessary to look at how often other couples have sex.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 3:A 'real man' can last all night long Reality --> Between 2 and 7 minutes is 'average.
' This myth would have a man believing that if he is not capable of maintaining a rock hard erection and performing all night (the equivalent of a sexual miracle), he is an incompetent lover.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 4:The man is responsible for his partners' orgasm Reality --> Partners should take responsibility for their own sexual pleasure.
Men who try and live up to this myth are termed 'sexual performers' by therapists.
They are more likely to fall victim to impotency, premature ejaculation, and other sex related problems.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 5: Men are always ready and willing to perform on command Reality --> Men vary as greatly in their need for sex as women do...
This myth surrounding male sexual prowess has continued over the centuries, and would have us believing that a man can get an erection - and be ready to perform immediately, at any time, in response to the smallest flirtation or hint of seduction from a woman.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 6: Men need a fully erect penis to satisfy a woman Reality --> Only 1 in 5 women will ever reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone - no matter HOW long you can go for or how hard it is! With the more recent introduction and prevalence of impotence drugs such as Viagra, this is myth looks set to becoming even more ingrained in our culture.
This is in spite of research which now tells us only 1 in 5 women are able to orgasm through penetrative intercourse alone.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 7: A man's erection defines his masculinity Reality --> It's 'normal' to experience erectile dysfunction...
Statistics tell us that by age 40, around 90% of men will have experienced some form of erectile dysfunction.
It is therefore considered 'normal' for a man to experience this from time to time.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 8:Intercourse is the only way to make love Reality --> Intercourse is just one way to make love I have touched on this briefly in some of the other myths, however it does deserve a special mention also because at some level we (men and women) are all programmed to believe that penetrative intercourse is the ultimate outcome of any sexual encounter.
Overcome Premature EjaculationMyth 9:Having good sex comes naturally Reality --> We have to learn and re-learn how to please our partner(s).
The desire for sex is instinctive and a natural response in our bodies.
However, what we do about this instinct is learned through society and culture and our attitudes and beliefs about sex.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 10:Everyone else has a wonderful sex life Reality -->We all have problems at some stage...
While reported figures will always be subjective, research tells us over 70% of Americans who remain sexually active, have had a problem in his or her sex life or relationship at some point in their lives.
Now you have blown the lid on some commonly held myths that we are led to believe.
You can relieve much of the anxiety that you may feel right now and start taking some more confident steps in the right direction.
Men try to follow some type of public stigma that we are supposed to be sex machines!You can stop holding your breath as I'm about to blow the lid on the top 10 myths surrounding premature ejaculation and the sexual society that we find ourselves in today...
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 1:Your penis is your most powerful sex organ Reality --> Your mind is your most powerful sex organ, and your skin is your largest one! Yes it's true for both men and women.
The mind is your most powerful sex organ.
This explains the mystery of all those mornings you woke up after a 'wet dream' wondering "wow, how did that happen?" Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 2:'Real men' have sex frequently Reality --> Men have sex less often than they're boasting to their friends.
Sometimes men lie about sex.
Often they lie about how frequently they're 'doing it'.
I want to stress that you shouldn't compare your sex life and performance to others, when it comes to breaking down this myth it is necessary to look at how often other couples have sex.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 3:A 'real man' can last all night long Reality --> Between 2 and 7 minutes is 'average.
' This myth would have a man believing that if he is not capable of maintaining a rock hard erection and performing all night (the equivalent of a sexual miracle), he is an incompetent lover.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 4:The man is responsible for his partners' orgasm Reality --> Partners should take responsibility for their own sexual pleasure.
Men who try and live up to this myth are termed 'sexual performers' by therapists.
They are more likely to fall victim to impotency, premature ejaculation, and other sex related problems.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 5: Men are always ready and willing to perform on command Reality --> Men vary as greatly in their need for sex as women do...
This myth surrounding male sexual prowess has continued over the centuries, and would have us believing that a man can get an erection - and be ready to perform immediately, at any time, in response to the smallest flirtation or hint of seduction from a woman.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 6: Men need a fully erect penis to satisfy a woman Reality --> Only 1 in 5 women will ever reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone - no matter HOW long you can go for or how hard it is! With the more recent introduction and prevalence of impotence drugs such as Viagra, this is myth looks set to becoming even more ingrained in our culture.
This is in spite of research which now tells us only 1 in 5 women are able to orgasm through penetrative intercourse alone.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 7: A man's erection defines his masculinity Reality --> It's 'normal' to experience erectile dysfunction...
Statistics tell us that by age 40, around 90% of men will have experienced some form of erectile dysfunction.
It is therefore considered 'normal' for a man to experience this from time to time.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 8:Intercourse is the only way to make love Reality --> Intercourse is just one way to make love I have touched on this briefly in some of the other myths, however it does deserve a special mention also because at some level we (men and women) are all programmed to believe that penetrative intercourse is the ultimate outcome of any sexual encounter.
Overcome Premature EjaculationMyth 9:Having good sex comes naturally Reality --> We have to learn and re-learn how to please our partner(s).
The desire for sex is instinctive and a natural response in our bodies.
However, what we do about this instinct is learned through society and culture and our attitudes and beliefs about sex.
Overcome Premature Ejaculation Myth 10:Everyone else has a wonderful sex life Reality -->We all have problems at some stage...
While reported figures will always be subjective, research tells us over 70% of Americans who remain sexually active, have had a problem in his or her sex life or relationship at some point in their lives.
Now you have blown the lid on some commonly held myths that we are led to believe.
You can relieve much of the anxiety that you may feel right now and start taking some more confident steps in the right direction.
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