Why is it that some people fear to commit themselves to their friends? At least you have heard someone saying that he will never trust his friend again.
Why will a person say that he will never trust his or her friend? Human beings are animals who are social in nature.
They form relationships with other people.
Some researches that have been conducted have revealed that people who don't spend time with friends are lonely and they are likely to suffer from stress unlike people who spend time with their friends.
Fear can be a major obstacle for one to do something that improves his/her life.
It is not easy for a person who fears to form new relationships.
Perhaps, there are some bad friendship incidences that had happened in the past that makes a person to fear forming new relationships.
Since some people are afraid of their safety as a result of crimes that are committed, they fear talking to strangers.
There are also people who fear how others are going to think about their relationships.
Is there someone you befriended but you doubted how others will think about your friendship with him/her? People might consider you to be naïve when you love someone.
When you are generous and you take care of people around you, others may become suspicious about you.
However, if your actions are genuine then there is no need for you to pay attention to how others will think about you.
When you are happy you will socialize well with people unlike when you are sad.
Every person will want to spend time with a friend who is happy and positive about life.
People who think that forgiveness is a weakness are not likely to forgive their friends when they make mistakes.
Before you befriend someone, you should consider on how you will relate with that person.
You should show love and compassion to him/her.
Without love from others towards you, your life will be empty despite you being healthy.
If your relationship fails, you should ask yourself questions so as to find out what caused it to fail.
You should not fear facing the reality.
If you find out that you were the one who caused the relationship to fail, you can either ask for forgives or go on with life while looking forward to start a new relationship.
Asking for forgives doesn't mean that you are weak.
But it means that you are a person who is willing to admit your mistakes and rectify them.
You should never fear to start a new relationship.
You should value your relationship with your friends since friends help you from becoming anxious and being stressed.
During good and bad times, you will turn to your friends for help.
Therefore, forming good relationship with your friends is very important in your life.
Don't be afraid of some of the problems you will encounter from your friends!