A common complaint among girlfriends is, "my boyfriend is horrible at sex, he can't last long enough.
" This can be incredibly frustrating.
Here you have found a decent guy, he may have many awesome qualities to them, yet he turns out to be horrible in the sack! So what do you do? Do you just live with it and appreciate his good qualities? Maybe sex isn't really that important anyway, right? Wrong.
You definitely need to do something about it.
All relationships should experience great sex.
If it is lacking, you need to take action to improve it.
Here's what to do: 1.
Talk to him and express desire to help him become a better lover.
Be sweet and caring and let him know that it is an issue.
Keep in mind that lasting long enough during sex is a common problem with guys.
Letting him know this will not make him feel like his problem is unique.
2.
Have fun with it.
That's correct, you can actually make intimacy fun and adventurous by helping your boyfriend last longer.
Practice makes perfect, so practicing long lasting sex with your boyfriend can by key to improving his intimacy skills.
During sex, when he feels ejaculation come on, stop everything, rest, and start again.
You are basically training your boyfriends body to become better at sex.
3.
Get him help! Hey, this isn't your problem, right? On one hand you definitely should be understanding and considerate, and practice with him when you can, yet on the other hand your boyfriend should take steps himself, on his own, to become better at sex.
The best thing to do is to get him a "last longer" manual where he can do exercises on his own and after some weeks he'll be able to last much, much longer.
Sometimes guys are hesitant to help themselves, so the solution may be to get them the manual yourself and put the information in his hands.
Therefore he has no excuses not to improve his skills!