Mentally Healthy Children Are the Wealth of Parents
Every mother-to-be and father-to-be has many plans and schemes to raise their children as perfect individuals.
It is only when they confront the issue; the difficulty of the task gets revealed to the full extent before them.
Parenting is no easy job and it requires dedication, time, patience and above all unconditional love.
No person is perfect whether it is father, mother or children.
Parents are the exemplars for their children.
Children imitate their parents.
If you want to your child to grow up a certain way, the best thing you can do is to behave the way you want your child to behave! Children do not know if their parents are doing the right or wrong thing, because they are too small.
The only thing that concerns them is that you are doing it! What you say and do gets absorbed to their little minds and they will reproduce your words and actions when you least expect it.
It is important that parents choose the right words and do not lose control when dealing with a particular situation.
Do not hit or spank children as a way to discipline them.
It will cause confusion in them.
If a child is spanked or hit whenever he does anything wrong, it will make him rebellious.
In course of time the child may turn cold towards you.
Disciplinary measures should be chosen carefully.
The way selected to discipline your child should be consistent in order to avoid confusion.
Do not scare your children with your authoritative nature.
If you enforce your power on them, it will make them challenge you.
Children should be treated with love and respect.
Speak to your children like the way you peak to others.
If you speak in a refined and courteous way to your children, it will reflect on their character and urge them to behave the same way.
Foul words and violent actions should be avoided completely when you deal with children.
Everyone; children as well as grown ups, love a word of appreciation from others.
A word of praise from parents will boost the moral and confidence of children to a great extent.
Likewise avoid criticism; you can point out their short comings in a way that do not hurt or insult them.
Unconditional love will draw your children close to you.
Do not fear surplus love will spoil them.
Your love will make them turn towards you for support in their difficulties.
It is only when they confront the issue; the difficulty of the task gets revealed to the full extent before them.
Parenting is no easy job and it requires dedication, time, patience and above all unconditional love.
No person is perfect whether it is father, mother or children.
Parents are the exemplars for their children.
Children imitate their parents.
If you want to your child to grow up a certain way, the best thing you can do is to behave the way you want your child to behave! Children do not know if their parents are doing the right or wrong thing, because they are too small.
The only thing that concerns them is that you are doing it! What you say and do gets absorbed to their little minds and they will reproduce your words and actions when you least expect it.
It is important that parents choose the right words and do not lose control when dealing with a particular situation.
Do not hit or spank children as a way to discipline them.
It will cause confusion in them.
If a child is spanked or hit whenever he does anything wrong, it will make him rebellious.
In course of time the child may turn cold towards you.
Disciplinary measures should be chosen carefully.
The way selected to discipline your child should be consistent in order to avoid confusion.
Do not scare your children with your authoritative nature.
If you enforce your power on them, it will make them challenge you.
Children should be treated with love and respect.
Speak to your children like the way you peak to others.
If you speak in a refined and courteous way to your children, it will reflect on their character and urge them to behave the same way.
Foul words and violent actions should be avoided completely when you deal with children.
Everyone; children as well as grown ups, love a word of appreciation from others.
A word of praise from parents will boost the moral and confidence of children to a great extent.
Likewise avoid criticism; you can point out their short comings in a way that do not hurt or insult them.
Unconditional love will draw your children close to you.
Do not fear surplus love will spoil them.
Your love will make them turn towards you for support in their difficulties.
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