If you're suffering from retarded ejaculation you may be experiencing feelings of hopelessness and despair.
Not being able to reach climax while inside your partner can often cause great distress for both partners.
It can rob your sex life of intimacy and pleasure and it can also often cause the woman to doubt her sexual prowess and attractiveness.
If you repeatedly can't have an orgasm during sex it very likely is not because of any physical issue.
As it pertains to this particular problem, it's almost always a psychological cause.
Because of this, taking medication will often not help and buying drugs and different types of medication will most likely just leave you with a lighter wallet.
Counselling is a popular treatment method.
Counselling can help you deal with any psychological hang-ups that you may have about sex and you can learn how to relax and enjoy sex more.
You can attend counselling alone but also together with your partner.
Through counselling you can also learn methods that can help you while you're having sex or while masturbating.
These methods can help you to reach climax while you're with your partner.
Sometimes the cause of this problem is too much masturbation.
It may be difficult to know if that is the case with you, so seeking the help of a professional can help you figure that out.
Sometimes of course the cause can be physical.
Among the cases when the cause is physical, injury to the spine is a common cause.
But knowing this requires a person that knows more about this issue so the best thing you can do is to seek help from someone else as soon as possible.