Toddlers are usually the most difficult kind of people that parents need to deal with, especially when they're out in public. Aside from the fact that toddlers easily get bored, they also do not know what embarrassment means. They will throw tantrums, scream, cry or throw things at anyone regardless of the time, occasion or place. You have to devise a few ways on how you can control the behavior before things get out of hand. Here's how.

1. Plan Ahead

First of all, you have to look for the right place that are more accommodating to toddlers and kids. You will want to search for a restaurant that serves the right type of food that your toddler will like. Some restaurants may include playgrounds, programs and other special treats and presentations to help entertain your child and keep him at bay. You should call ahead and inform the host that you are bringing your toddler along. An ideal restaurant will most likely prepare the details like the position of your table, the view and a high chair if needed.

2. Talk to Your Toddler

Talk to your toddler beforehand and give him an idea that you are dining out with other people. You have to ask your child to be in his best behavior. You may offer a reward if he agrees to behave and stay still. You may also tell him that due punishment may also be present if anything happens. Be open to your toddler's opinions and even try to ask him where he wishes to dine out. If you already planned somewhere else, tell your child that it will be his turn the next time. Let him promise to be in a good mood and to behave well.

3. Manage Your Time

Toddlers usually get bored after 30 to 60 minutes, so you should take time to let your toddle roam around. While waiting for your food, you may take your child out and let him explore the premises. Ask him to finish his food, so that he can roam more afterwards. Ask him to wait for about 30 minutes to let you finish your food before he can go. Give your toddler a good sense of time so that he learns how to wait properly. After dinner, take your child to the bathroom or let him order some dessert.

4. Give Him Space

You should let your toddler enjoy the dining out experience by giving him some sense of control. Let your child choose where he wants to sit, ask your child what he wants to order, ask your child to call the waiter or let him do his own ordering. The child will develop a sense of control and will better behave if you give him responsibilities. Treat him in a mature way so that he will respond appropriately. Let your child function like keeping an eye on your purse or making sure that glass is always full.

5. Should the Child Misbehave or Behave

Be ready to make a fast getaway should your child suddenly misbehaves or does not seem to cooperate regardless of your agreements and efforts. You should tell your child about the wrong behavior and the consequences of his actions, such as not going to his favorite restaurant because of his ill manners or being grounded for a time. If the child behaves throughout the dining out session, give him some compliments and reward by giving him a treat or going to his favorite snack bar for dessert.