So you are saying stop my divorce. Well that's easy to say but there are a lot of factors to be considered before this can happen. What brought you to this point? What can you do to make things different? And I always look at both sides so you really need to ask yourself if this is really what you want.

Don't get me wrong I absolutely do not advocate divorce. I advocate doing the right thing. In fact I wish more people would ask to stop my divorce. With the divorce rate hovering about 50% that tells me that divorce is too easy to get without any effort going back into the relationship.

Too many people think the relationship will be a long standing honeymoon and don't account for what the future may hold. Bills, children, housing, job loss, security, and 100 other things that lead people to asking for help to stop my divorce. Maybe we should be saying stop my wedding if these issues are not addressed ahead of time. Maybe we need more education before allowing two people to marry.

Now I am not just saying this for an article. I have been married over 20 years and let me tell you there were times when I wondered if I would be asking someone to stop my divorce. The key is we never gave up and always talked things out. That's the major problem in most relationships these days. There is absolutely no communication.

Before you get to the point of asking someone to stop my divorce take a long hard look at what got you there and try stopping it on your own. If I could offer one piece of advice that I think was and has been most prudent in my marriage is never go to bed angry even if it takes all night to make things right.