Although it may be difficult to find proper motivation to get back with an ex after a breakup, you can always find a reason in one way or another as to why you should possibly consider another relationship with that person. Having a negative perspective on your ex can cause you to overlook the potential of having a far brighter and more promising new relationship with that person. Be open-minded about it.

Start With Working Material

It's quite obvious that someone meets that person of their dreams every day. Although times were most likely very difficult for you or your ex at the end of the relationship, you both know more about each other than most people. Fixing a relationship that is having difficulty will be far easier with someone who experiences it with you, and knows how to work with you far better than most people.

Don't Quit

Bad times in a relationship tend to test the relationship's strength to be able to pull through. Sometimes these hardships bring people closer together, because it allows a cooperative effort between two people. All because of an occurrence that happened between you and an ex does not certainly dictate that you should give up on them. A relationship isn't about just simply being with someone, but sharing the ability to grow a deeper connection and learn forgiveness. That is something very strong that two share in a relationship, and all because of a breakup with a person doesn't necessarily mean that the ability for something like this to happen in forever gone.

Learning From Your Mistakes

We all can look back at previous actions and think of actions that we would have done differently. This is especially common when it comes to relationships, because people do things that they would look back on and happily have done a thing or two differently. By learning what actions caused the specific results, you can find out proper ways to handle things in a relationship.

What You May Be Missing

What many people tend to do, such as those in statistics, tend to reflect of past events and make inferences upon them. You can do the same, think about all of the joys and events that you took part in with your ex, and then think about how that would be right now, or here within the future. Understand what made things difficult for the past relationship and figure a way to better implement a new beginning with your ex. Knowing how the past worked with an ex makes them a prime candidate for a future relationship, knowing that it is easier to know how to handle a situation than that of a new relationship with someone that you just met.

Understand That People Change

Plenty of individuals want to blame their ex for the reasons that a relationship turned out the way that it may have, possibly drawing a conclusion that trust or honesty can never be found from them again and its like you exile them from your life. As time progresses people tend to change and mature, this is even true for your ex, who undergoes new experiences that can be life altering and greatly change the person that they are, possibly for the better. This goes for you too, whether you find certainty in it or not. Change in a relationship can also be its downfall, an inflexible half of a relationship will try to see to it that the person they are with stays the same, which inevitably results in conflict. Then again, thinking of what made you upset about a relationship can keep you from seeing the true light of things. This can result in you missing out on something that real, and could never enjoy for yourself, so think of what you may be missing. Many choose to exist in sadness, because that is the easiest way of handling tough times, the trick is to be above that and give it your all. Know that change occurs and for an ex, it may have been for the better, so don't feel constricted by an ex being the same person you thought they were, but were in fact a new and far more exciting person.