Many topics need to be addressed when a couple make the decision to start the wedding process. Location and date play a pivotal role in setting plans and themes that complement the time and area. Picking the primary wedding party is essential in wedding preparation so that you are surrounded by friends and family that can support you during this stressful time. All of these topics play large parts in your wedding preparation though there are some decisions that are more minor in significance but help to break up the stressful situations related to a marriage event. Some of the more fun decisions that must be made include choosing a ring bearer, a flower girl, bridesmaids, groomsmen, a musician and a videographer.

The wedding preparation choice related to a ring bearer is often a fun process because it normally entails involving children in the ceremony. Now this can be fun for both the wedding couple and the children since this decision brings laughter and ahs to a wedding event. Although it is understood that children are unpredictable it is important to chose a child that shows levels of dependability and the ability to focus. For children who are more wild in nature then controlled this position may not be the best choice for them. It is probably not the preference of the bride to be walking down the aisle while a parent is chasing around the ring bearer trying to gain control of the situation. The position of the ring bearer is important since they often carry the symbols that the marrying couple will be using to identify their union. For the flower girls remember that they are being given a projectile that they are encouraged to throw. It is important to make sure they know the difference between spreading flowers on the ground and pelting the wedding guests with a floral bombardment.

Another fun decision to make relates to the selection of the music in a wedding. There are two popular options that a wedding couple can follow in regards to this wedding preparation. The first direction that the wedding couple can go is with the hiring of a band. When you hire a band you are usually hiring an experienced wedding singer and his ensemble who will be singing popular songs of the last few decades with their own personal flair. For the couple who is fortunate enough to find a band of high quality during this phase of wedding preparation they have the chance to have a unique and unpredictable wedding. If you are uncomfortable with the thought of a group crooning out classics, not to mention the threat of a live mike, then the wedding DJ may be the direction for you. There are many high quality DJs available in every area that specialize in a wide variety of music allowing your reception to be tailored to your choices with the option of music selection. This phase of wedding preparation is often fun since you have the chance to meld the musical tastes of the wedding couple into one mix, very poetic.

There are many stresses that are revealed during the wedding preparation process so it is important to grasp the fun aspects as often as possible. Remember that this is a joyous occasion and do not let the stress of wedding preparation drive a wedge in your relationship.