When it comes to guys and having sex, we have plenty of issues that trip us up.
Especially when it comes to properly satisfying a woman.
A joke that describes it well involves comparing a man to a bottle rocket and a woman to a diesel engine.
Men are very quick while women take much longer to get going.
It boils down to how fast men can reach orgasm versus women.
It's no secret that men don't take nearly as long to reach orgasm as women do.
It's even cause for embarrassment.
If you are like me and in the category of being embarrassed by how long you last in bed, this article is for you.
So do you know why is it that you can't last long enough during intercourse? Well, there are several factors that are involved but the two most common ones have to do with your mental and physical trigger points.
In other words, how well you control your arousal and how you control your body during sex.
First, A word of Caution The truth is, there is no "magic cure" to premature ejaculation.
There are several tricks that you can use to give you a performance boost and make you last a little longer.
These tips should be used as part of a mental and physical training program to help you overcome your early ejaculation problem.
Let me share 3 easy tips you can use tonight on your partner.
These will definitely give you a performance boost in bed! The sneaky part is that if you use these correctly, your partner won't even know.
Trick #1 - Start Trying New Positions Most guys go for the missionary position.
Yep, it's the most common position and the one most guys stick with 100% of the time.
But did you know this is the fastest and surest way for a guy to climax? I love the missionary position, it's one of my favorites.
But I had no idea that it was killing my performance in bed.
If you want to last longer, try different positions like the side-on position or the woman-on-top (cowgirl or reverse cowgirl) where your girl has more control over the thrusts and momentum.
These 2 positions cause less friction during sex and less stimulation to you too.
Trick #2 - Get A "Thicker Skin" Tactic If you use condoms, try using a thicker one.
This helps reduce sensations and keep your arousal levels in check.
It sounds really simple, but most guys won't even try this.
There are even condoms that have de-sensitivity lubricants on them that will give you an extra edge on lasting even longer.
If you regularly use condoms, simply switching types or brands will give you a permanent edge on lasting longer.
It's pretty sneaky especially if your partner is used to you using condoms.
It's not hard to switch a new brand into the bedroom.
Trick #3 - Take Matters Into Your Own Hands Yep, some simple "self pleasure" is a simple trick that most guys don't bother with.
Working some alone time into your evening routine will really help take the edge off and naturally relax your body.
By releasing your sexual tensions first, your body will not be overly responsive and "on the edge" during the actual deed.
You know you are good at it.
It might not make sense to masturbate before having sex, but you'll be glad you did.