When you first find yourself in a happy and fulfilling relationship, deep in love with your woman, its hard to imagine that it could ever end.
Unfortunately, she has left you, or you probably wouldn't be searching the internet for answers right now.
Of course, figuring out exactly why she wanted out is one thing, but I'll bet your main concern right now is simply figuring out how to win her back.
Every relationship is as unique as the two individuals involved in it, so finding a simple, "magic" way of winning back a woman that works universally for every situation just isn't practical.
What has worked for one of your friends, for example, might do nothing for you.
Their relationship may have ended for completely different reasons, so the remedy your friend used would most likely not fit the specifics of your own break up.
So, how do you go about getting your woman back into your arms? Let's start by taking a look at yourself.
At the beginning of your relationship, you attracted your woman somehow, right? Something about you got her attention, which ultimately led to the two of you getting together in the first place.
Instead of trying to reinvent the wheel here by trying some kind of "fresh tactic," the best thing for you to do is consider what already worked for you in the past.
Well, how do you figure out exactly what it was about you that attracted your woman? Start by thinking about the type of person you were when you and your ex girlfriend first met.
Were you happy with your life at the time? Were you full of confidence when you first asked her out? How did you act in her presence? Consider everything from your overall mood at that point in your life to the actions that you may have taken, such as giving her flowers and gifts, etc.
The goal here is to figure out what about you may have changed from the time the two of you first got together to the present day.
Once you have an idea of what it was about you that may have changed, your next steps are pretty straight forward.
You need to restore those qualities that she loved about you the most.
If you were a much happier, stress-free person when you first met, for example, then you'll need to work on making yourself happier with your own life, and reducing unnecessary stress so that you can be that happy, confident man again.
Likewise, if you wooed her with random gifts or by taking her out often, those may be the types of things that she misses about the guy she fell in love with.
Work on "transforming" yourself back into that guy.
Figuring out how to win a woman back can be as simple as figuring out how you won her heart in the first place.
Take a close look at the history of how your relationship started, and as they say, "rinse and repeat.
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