Has your wife suddenly become distant or inattentive to your needs? Is she starting to make plans on her own? If you feel that something is terribly wrong but just can't put your finger on it, then read on.
Although it is normal to experience lows in marriage, drifting farther apart from your wife should be taken as a warning sign.
What you can do is try to think back to what triggered your wife's distant behavior in the first place.
For starters, has it occurred to you that you may be responsible for the distance between the two of you? Here are some points you need to reflect on that could possibly help you find out just why the woman, who was once deeply in love with you, has now lost all interest in your marriage.

• Are you still showing her the same love and attention the way you used to?
• Do you still take her out to dinners or bring her flowers like the old days?
• Do you still share in the household chores?
• Are you still looking out for the kids and assisting with their daily needs?
• Do you still look forward to weekends with the family?
• Do you still show interest in her parents and how they are doing?
• In short, do you still show her the appreciation that she deserves?

These are little things but could mean a great deal to someone you love.
You just need to keep in mind that marriage is something that needs to be treasured and taken care of.
Your vow to love and serve each other, no matter what, does not end at the altar, but will follow you for the rest of your life.
There has to be an active effort between couples to make it work.
So if you are starting to feel her distance, then try to identify the problems and fix them as early as you can.
The earlier you address the issues, the bigger the chances of saving what's left of your marriage.