Does anybody really like the feeling of a broken heart so much they want to hold on to it? I think some people must; there are so many ways to let go of one, it almost seems like you have to like having a broken heart if you choose to keep holding on to it.

What can you do if the love of your life tells you that he or she doesn't ever want to see you again? We've probably all been there at some point in our lives: having the one we love the most tell us that they just don't feel the same way about us any more, or, if they do, that they just don't want to stay in a romantic relationship with us for whatever reason.

Can you remember the first time this happened to you? I can: I can still feel the pain, the loss, the terrible loneliness... And I don't know about you, but I don't deal well with rejection (probably why I never went into sales, LOL!) - and the idea of having to start over, with someone new, who you may not have even met yet… Can you spell "MELTDOWN"?

But it doesn't have to be that way: if you can look at the loss from a different perspective; if you can see it, not as an ending, but as a new beginning; if you can seize the opportunity it represents to start a new chapter in your life, it can be a whole different experience.

And one of the best ways to get a new perspective on any life situation -- especially one as emotionally-charged and personally traumatic as a relationship ending -- is to talk to an objective outside observer; someone who can see things that you can't because it's too close, too raw, too painful for you to deal with objectively.

For lots of us, talking to a spiritual advisor, an emotional intuitive, a "love psychic", if you will, provides the key to unlocking that new beginning when a relationship ends. In fact, I'm convinced that speaking with an empathetic yet objective intuitive advisor is the single BEST way to get your life back on track after an emotional upheaval like this.

Why do I say that? Because almost everybody in this situation tends to feel that life as they know it has ended when a romantic relationship ends this way, and that can close your mind to the powerful lessons that are almost always contained in the "failure" of a relationship -- lessons that, if you learn them, can help you make the next relationship that much better, that much stronger, that much longer-lasting.

An empathic advisor can give you objective advice, because they're not influenced by judgments about you, your previous relationships, or any of the emotional baggage that prevents you from seeing things clearly right now. Frankly, they're much better to talk to even than the people in our lives who love us the most, because those people (friends, family, co-workers) are attached to us, or attached to the other person in the relationship that just ended, or have some other kind of emotional "investment" in that relationship.

A love psychic can give you the "big picture" perspective: they can help you understand that your life is not defined by a single relationship, by one unhappy ending, or even "one true love." They can help open your mind to the possibilities that wait for you if you open yourself to seeing your life as a complex tapestry of experiences that help to shape your destiny...

You do have the power to let go of your broken heart and move on with your life, and if you're ready, you can start RIGHT NOW!