Ways to Get Back at Your Ex
I am going to list 5 tried and tested methods to repair and grow the bonds you once had with your love one.
It is a sad but true fact that break ups happen every day for many reasons.
Are you involved in one of these relationships? Know that you are not alone and many times the problems can be resolved with a little help.
There are feelings involved with breakups and one of them may be to get back at them.
First you must ask yourself is getting back at your ex the right thing to do? There are powerful ways to get back at your ex that may actually make them want to get back the relationship that you once had.
The tips mentioned here may not only get your ex to start worrying about what they are giving up but also make them want to get back with you.
1 - Strength.
Nobody wants someone who is needy, and this is never truer than when your relationship has gone wrong.
Everything you do that shows you are desperate needs to end.
This includes begging, pleading, crying to them or basically anything that lets them feel like they are at the wheel of this break up.
Whether it is true or not let your ex think that you are doing great without them and are ready to start life again by acting strong and moving on.
If you show your ex you have moved on then and only then will they be thinking about what this break up really will mean to them and then they may realize they have not moved on.
2 - Keep communication to a minimum.
This is the most important step to, even though it may seem all wrong, to getting back at or getting back with your ex.
This leaves room for doubt in their minds and gives you a break from having to control your emotions when you speak with them.
It will be a welcome break for you and get the wheels rolling in the mind of your ex that maybe you do not need this relationship.
It may well be the way for your ex to come to realization that this relationship is something to spend some time and get it back right.
3 - Flexibility.
Do not demand things of your ex such as moving out now or pick up their things by a certain date.
Remain flexible, listen and sympathize with what is going on in their schedule.
Seeing you act this way will probably shock your ex and maybe it will be the thing to get more communication going that could have been lacking at the start of the breakup.
4 - Go out and have a good time! You do not want to be by yourself right now.
Find someone to do something with outside of your house, especially if your house were you were together with your ex.
Do things that make you happy with someone.
It could be going to the movies, taking walks or whatever will break up the time you have to be alone.
It does not have to be a 'date' date, or being with the opposite sex at all.
It is very important right now to spend time with others with something fun to do.
This will make you feel so much better at the same time showing your ex that you know how to have a good time either with or without them.
5 - You have to be yourself.
Not a sad self that you may be now but yourself when you met your ex and had a happy relationship.
Think back to these times and remember the way you were.
Again, this will not only make you a happier person but it will surely be an inspiration to your ex thinking back to those old times again.
For more ideas and tips on what to do after a breakup please use some of the resources listed below.
It is a sad but true fact that break ups happen every day for many reasons.
Are you involved in one of these relationships? Know that you are not alone and many times the problems can be resolved with a little help.
There are feelings involved with breakups and one of them may be to get back at them.
First you must ask yourself is getting back at your ex the right thing to do? There are powerful ways to get back at your ex that may actually make them want to get back the relationship that you once had.
The tips mentioned here may not only get your ex to start worrying about what they are giving up but also make them want to get back with you.
1 - Strength.
Nobody wants someone who is needy, and this is never truer than when your relationship has gone wrong.
Everything you do that shows you are desperate needs to end.
This includes begging, pleading, crying to them or basically anything that lets them feel like they are at the wheel of this break up.
Whether it is true or not let your ex think that you are doing great without them and are ready to start life again by acting strong and moving on.
If you show your ex you have moved on then and only then will they be thinking about what this break up really will mean to them and then they may realize they have not moved on.
2 - Keep communication to a minimum.
This is the most important step to, even though it may seem all wrong, to getting back at or getting back with your ex.
This leaves room for doubt in their minds and gives you a break from having to control your emotions when you speak with them.
It will be a welcome break for you and get the wheels rolling in the mind of your ex that maybe you do not need this relationship.
It may well be the way for your ex to come to realization that this relationship is something to spend some time and get it back right.
3 - Flexibility.
Do not demand things of your ex such as moving out now or pick up their things by a certain date.
Remain flexible, listen and sympathize with what is going on in their schedule.
Seeing you act this way will probably shock your ex and maybe it will be the thing to get more communication going that could have been lacking at the start of the breakup.
4 - Go out and have a good time! You do not want to be by yourself right now.
Find someone to do something with outside of your house, especially if your house were you were together with your ex.
Do things that make you happy with someone.
It could be going to the movies, taking walks or whatever will break up the time you have to be alone.
It does not have to be a 'date' date, or being with the opposite sex at all.
It is very important right now to spend time with others with something fun to do.
This will make you feel so much better at the same time showing your ex that you know how to have a good time either with or without them.
5 - You have to be yourself.
Not a sad self that you may be now but yourself when you met your ex and had a happy relationship.
Think back to these times and remember the way you were.
Again, this will not only make you a happier person but it will surely be an inspiration to your ex thinking back to those old times again.
For more ideas and tips on what to do after a breakup please use some of the resources listed below.
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