When it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back and doing it with as much ease and speed as possible, it's pretty important that you understand certain things about attraction.
Here are some points you might want to think about if you are serious about trying to get back together with your ex girlfriend: => Don't give her control - Often men will think of women as being above them in some way, you know the way guys are when a beautiful woman is close, they act like dogs and think of her as being some sort of angel or something.
Well, they often think that they could not be with a woman like that and you know what, with a mindset like that, it's pretty unlikely that they will.
If you think of your ex as being above you or more important than you, then she can manipulate you in some ways, she is in control because she knows that you want to be with her and that you are in love with her.
Think of yourself as being the prize, think that she should be chasing you.
=> Be different form the rest of the pack - You know, there are "average" men everywhere, what do you think is attractive about someone who is just the same as everyone else? When you stand out from the crowd, it usually makes you more interesting.
Don't be like everyone else.
Now, obviously there are good ways to stand out and there are bad ways, so learn more about this before doing it.
=> Be strong - You know, it annoys me quite a lot when I hear men talking about how hard things are for them, they have a negative mindset and they feel sorry for themselves, they are basically mentally weak.
Do you think it is attractive to a woman to be a mentally weak man? Think about it.
The best advice I could give you right now is to simply read more and learn all you can about this subject because that will help you understand what you need to do in order to get her back quickly and easily.