If you are planning on getting back together with your ex husband, this is a major step that you are taking.
There must have been a real good reason to split and you need to think through carefully before you proceed.
Whatever the reasons you split, unless you have sorted this out, it is like building your "house on sand".
Maybe it was just a spur of the moment decision to end the marriage and you realize it was a mistake.
Getting back together with your ex husband may after all be the right thing to do.
Here are a few tips to consider to make sure it works: 1.
Small talk just irritate most men.
They just cannot understand why women have to go down to every detail.
You need to watch out for this.
Push the talk too far and they might just shut off even if they are still physically present.
And this will not be much of a discussion.
2.
When men are big enough to apologize, accept it and move on.
Continued sulking or remembering and bringing it up again and again does not augur well for the relationship.
This does not apply, however, if they have been physically or mentally abusive.
In this case, don't even think about getting back together.
3.
Don't sit around and wish for your husband to know you want him back.
Men are not great mind readers.
If you want him back, tell him so.
And this applies to just about everything else.
4.
Don't be dependent on your husband to make your life interesting.
There are many girls who depend on the men in their lives to make their life interesting.
Have an interesting life of your own and a great person who adds spark to your relationship.
Otherwise, there will be little to converse about except those things that are common to you both.
5.
If you succeed in getting back together with your ex husband, keep up the excitement of the relationship.
Arrange for dates with him.
Just the two of you.