If you recognize you have messed up and now you want to get back with your ex, you have an idea of what needs to be done in order to get back. You need to confess your faults, mend them and of course say sorry for what you did.

We are only humans, vulnerable creatures, that is why we make mistakes but do not take it as the end of the world. For sure what you did is wrong but what is also important is what you are doing after that.

Now you must rewind what happened. Analyze the events that occurred and the subjects that were involved and initiated the break up. I do agree that mistakes were made by both of you but right now concentrate on yours so that you can draft what to tell to your ex to convince them.

After that, take a look at your mistakes. Are they unforgiving? If you say they are, then it is wrong. Do not be negative. These were your past actions. What counts now is your future behaviors. Remember time is the best healer; even the worst mistakes can be forgivable. And you know hope is the most exciting thing in life! Do not lose it.

Try to remember if there were things troubling you at the time you messed up. Did any of them have an influence on you? Is it possible that this contributed to your bad behavior? Examples can be a bad day at work that turned you down or a discussion with someone that ruined your mood or even anxiety regarding folks stuff.

If you want to get back with your ex, after discovering what drove you to this behavior, you should calmly take a seat with your ex and give clear explanations of the situation. Try to persuade them that you really regret what happened.

And if you messed up simply because of your nature, then you have to work on it. This will take time but if you are serious, the result will be sweet and of course it will help you get back with your ex. So, it is useful.