Probably you feel lonely and sad after your breakup.
Now you don't want listen to the modern music.
Every song reminds about your beloved so your spiritual pain increases.
You want to get back together.
You want to return your cheerful relationship and see your friendly and attractive lover ex again.
You need to have the strong desire to get your ex back into your arms as fast as possible.
This is understandable.
If you have the strong desire you begin looking for every possibility of reunion with your beloved.
There are very many different possibilities around.
Having the strong desire you may use them.
Common mistake is to tell your beloved how much you love them and will love them through all your life.
It sounds doubtful.
Usually the words don't change anything.
Only action can change everything No matter how painful the separation can be, you have to retain your dignity.
Do not act so desperate as to fall down on your knees in front of her, begging like a child without his most-liked toy, pleading them to come back, and promising all sorts of things.
You will never ever win any contest on how to get your ex backin this way! If you really desire to get your ex back in your life, you have to wholly understand the situation and start acting on it.
What I basically mean is, make sure that you are seen out in public places.
Take action to make their friends report back to them that they saw you at such and such a place or with some people (even new partner!).
You've got to find out these problems and preferably solve these problems together with your ex - that's how to stop a breakup.