However it needs to happen, you need to make sure she gets out of it.
It is disheartening to learn that your ex girlfriend, the one you loved and shared so many things with is not only with the wrong guy but also in an abusive situation.
This is something nobody deserves to experience.
Whatever you need to do, go ahead and do it.
Whether you are able to get your ex girlfriend back to you is not the most important thing, you must get her out of this situation.
She needs your help whether she realizes it or not.
At this point, you need to make a decision.
Do you want your ex girlfriend back, or do you just want to save her from the situation she has found herself? What is going to matter most is if she sees your effort as looking out for her best interest, rather than yours.
You must also look at what motivates you so as not to use this platform for your own selfish interests.
The most important thing is to do what you know is good and right.
It could also appear that she doesn't need your help, be willing to accept there is nothing you can do about it.
You can imagine how she will feel when you have not only rescued her from an unhappy situation, but also a potentially life-threatening one.
It is true that when once someone has been abused that it is easy for them to fall into the same condition again.
If she discovers it is absolutely safe with you, she will find it very hard to turn away.
What do you do? Let her know she will be safe with you.
Let her know that you have really changed for the best and that she can always rely on you from now onwards.
Let her know that you will always listen attentively to her whenever she has anything to say.
This decision will definitely hurt you, but I bet it is a good thing to do if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back from an abusive situation.
When the abuser abuses someone, the one abused usually suffer from low self esteem.
At this point, let her know that she is so special and you will never do anything to abuse her because she deserves something better.
The only thing that will convince her is your motivation to rescue her from the abusive situation.
It will be quite risky if your main aim is to get her back as your girlfriend.
This is because her safety might be compromised as a result.
The situation might get worse if the abuser discovers that someone else is trying to rescue her from the situation.
When he discovers that his hold on her is lessening, he might re-strategize and use any means necessary to achieve his selfish aim.
The girl's safety is what should be paramount in your mind as you are trying to get her back.
Do something urgently if you see your ex girlfriend is in trouble.
Whatever happened is in the past and should be allowed to remain there.
Doing this good to her would save her life.
It does not matter whether you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back or not.