Top Tips to Get Back at Your Ex
So your relationship has broken down, and right now you may feel like your world is closing in and that your ex hs hurt you so badly that you really want to get back at them - but stop.
Just breathe for one moment and take a step back.
Do you really want to hurt them and get back at them, or is it that you want them back? I think secretly it is the latter and rather than hurting them you would give anything to have the love and relationship back that you have lost.
Maybe the best way to get back at your ex is to show them what they are missing, whilst in the meantime you will most likely show them exactly what they are missing, and cause them to chase you to get YOU back! Here's my top 5 tips to accomplish this: 1 - You have to BE STRONG - Don't be needy or tell them you can't live without them.
The best thing that you can do is to stand on your own two feet and hold on for dear life.
Ride out the storm, and your ex will see just what a strong independent person you are! When you don't NEED them, that's when they will WANT you! 2 - Keep communication to a minimum - that means cut the texting, the phone calls and voicemail messages.
Distance yourself from your ex to give you both some breathing space.
Don't go round to their house or write them love letters.
Your most important concern should be you, so focus on number 1, and keep yourself away from your ex.
3 - Be flexible.
Don't force your ex to do anything - don't make them move out, close down joint bank accounts etc.
Once your ex realises just how easy going you are, they will realise they are seeing a new side of you, and be intruiged into what they have lost out on.
4 - PARTY!! You need to get yourself out and about, socialise with friends, go for drinks with friends and enjoy life again!! You don't have to start dating again, just try to enjoy yourself, and don't sit at home moping - soon your ex will realise what a gem they have let go! 5 - Be Yourself.
Your ex loved you for who you are, so don't try to change that - sooner or later they will see what it is they fell in love with in the first place - YOU!
Just breathe for one moment and take a step back.
Do you really want to hurt them and get back at them, or is it that you want them back? I think secretly it is the latter and rather than hurting them you would give anything to have the love and relationship back that you have lost.
Maybe the best way to get back at your ex is to show them what they are missing, whilst in the meantime you will most likely show them exactly what they are missing, and cause them to chase you to get YOU back! Here's my top 5 tips to accomplish this: 1 - You have to BE STRONG - Don't be needy or tell them you can't live without them.
The best thing that you can do is to stand on your own two feet and hold on for dear life.
Ride out the storm, and your ex will see just what a strong independent person you are! When you don't NEED them, that's when they will WANT you! 2 - Keep communication to a minimum - that means cut the texting, the phone calls and voicemail messages.
Distance yourself from your ex to give you both some breathing space.
Don't go round to their house or write them love letters.
Your most important concern should be you, so focus on number 1, and keep yourself away from your ex.
3 - Be flexible.
Don't force your ex to do anything - don't make them move out, close down joint bank accounts etc.
Once your ex realises just how easy going you are, they will realise they are seeing a new side of you, and be intruiged into what they have lost out on.
4 - PARTY!! You need to get yourself out and about, socialise with friends, go for drinks with friends and enjoy life again!! You don't have to start dating again, just try to enjoy yourself, and don't sit at home moping - soon your ex will realise what a gem they have let go! 5 - Be Yourself.
Your ex loved you for who you are, so don't try to change that - sooner or later they will see what it is they fell in love with in the first place - YOU!
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