Are you madly in love with a guy? Do you lie awake at night wishing he would fall in love with you? What does he need from you in order to fall in love? Guys like being in love just as much as women.
Guys just take a little longer to get there.
However, when he does, he's more likely to be serious about it because it's harder to get a guy to commit his heart.
There are certain needs that need to be met before a guy will fall in love.
Are you ready to find out what they are? Keep reading.
· Stand out: You have amazing qualities.
Flaunt them! He needs to know why you are special.
What makes you unique? I don't know if juggling is something that will make you look more like a love partner, but showing him that you can hold your own in a board game could.
It flaunts off your intelligence and makes fun memories.
· Freedom: Guys are afraid that if they commit, they will lose their identity.
They need to know that they can still have time out with their friends.
They also need you to respect their privacy.
If they have an area that is special to him, respect that area and steer clear.
· Comfort: Men need to be comfortable with you.
Falling in love is induced by releasing a chemical in the brain called oxytocin.
Some things you can do to help release that chemical are cooking together.
Men associate good feelings with eating.
If you prepare a meal together, he is likely to associate those good feelings with you.
Buy things for your kitchen you know he would like.
Find out what brand of popcorn or cereal he eats and stock up.
Be a friend to him.
When he needs an ear to listen, be sure to be there.
· Emotional bond: When you get too physically involved too fast, you can delay the emotional bonding process.
Keeping things on an emotional level in the beginning, his thoughts are more likely to be associated with your personality instead of what you can do in bed.
He will still be thinking that of course, but there will be emotional feelings attached.
· Make him happier: He needs to be able to associated happy feelings with you.
When you are happy, you release more feel good hormones called serotonin.
Make him laugh, make silly faces, go see a comedy.
You'll have him releasing happy hormones and associating you with them in no time.
· Letting down his guard: It's a dog eat dog kind of world out there.
Men are always competing and have very little time to be emotional.
Be someone he can trust.
Get him to let down his guard.
Tease him, tell him about your own fears.
This will break down those big walls he has around his heart.
Something that will bring that wall back up: comparing him to another man.
Men want to be number one in your book.
Don't ever tell him if someone was better than him at anything! You're likely to lose his heart that way.
· Let him be your hero: It is within the male nature to want to rescue a damsel in distress.
You don't have to search out dragons or trains to throw yourself in front of, but there are sensible things you can do to make him want to protect you.
Let him open a jar or kill a spider.