Save Your Marriage Today Through Gratitude and a Healthy Relationship
It's every day; it isn't a holiday a birthday or an anniversary.
Complacency has possibly set in to what was once a loving thriving relationship.
We acknowledge the special events and occasions with gifts, special dinners out and celebrations yet there is still something missing in the relationship.
Should our next move be to send flowers or a gift to the office or home? Should we make reservations for a special dinner or show to express our love? These are all kind and wonderful gestures in a relationship but will they make a difference and rekindle the love we've shared in the past? Probably not, more than likely it will be seen as a kind gesture, appreciated for the moment, the evening or until the flowers begin to wither.
How do we show our spouse that we love them? What does our partner need to feel and know that they are loved? Begin with gratitude and appreciation.
Through your thoughts, actions and words express your gratitude and appreciation for your spouse.
There is nothing more powerful than the spoken word.
Observe yourself over a few days, what words do you use when speaking with your spouse? Are they words of affirmation or words of disdain, discontent or disparaging remarks? From personal experience I've witnessed the power of words over time.
What once began as a mild jab or a comment "in fun", over time would become a searing accusation or insult.
The words we choose will determine the direction of our future communications.
If we thoughtfully use words of affirmation with our spouse they will feel honored and esteemed.
Helping our spouse to feel appreciated and important makes for a stronger bond and will bolster trust and confidence in a relationship.
Never allow a spouse to feel unworthy or unloved.
Make it part of your daily routine to seek out and recognize all that is good and positive that you love about your spouse and your relationship.
Begin to place your emphasis and focus on these areas of both your spouse and your relationship, watch carefully as more of what you love becomes part of your daily lives.
Daily doses of gratitude for our lives and our loved ones will have a lasting effect on their well being along with the collateral effect of creating a more positive environment around us.
Set a positive tone through gratitude and appreciation and have the healthy relationship you desire.
Complacency has possibly set in to what was once a loving thriving relationship.
We acknowledge the special events and occasions with gifts, special dinners out and celebrations yet there is still something missing in the relationship.
Should our next move be to send flowers or a gift to the office or home? Should we make reservations for a special dinner or show to express our love? These are all kind and wonderful gestures in a relationship but will they make a difference and rekindle the love we've shared in the past? Probably not, more than likely it will be seen as a kind gesture, appreciated for the moment, the evening or until the flowers begin to wither.
How do we show our spouse that we love them? What does our partner need to feel and know that they are loved? Begin with gratitude and appreciation.
Through your thoughts, actions and words express your gratitude and appreciation for your spouse.
There is nothing more powerful than the spoken word.
Observe yourself over a few days, what words do you use when speaking with your spouse? Are they words of affirmation or words of disdain, discontent or disparaging remarks? From personal experience I've witnessed the power of words over time.
What once began as a mild jab or a comment "in fun", over time would become a searing accusation or insult.
The words we choose will determine the direction of our future communications.
If we thoughtfully use words of affirmation with our spouse they will feel honored and esteemed.
Helping our spouse to feel appreciated and important makes for a stronger bond and will bolster trust and confidence in a relationship.
Never allow a spouse to feel unworthy or unloved.
Make it part of your daily routine to seek out and recognize all that is good and positive that you love about your spouse and your relationship.
Begin to place your emphasis and focus on these areas of both your spouse and your relationship, watch carefully as more of what you love becomes part of your daily lives.
Daily doses of gratitude for our lives and our loved ones will have a lasting effect on their well being along with the collateral effect of creating a more positive environment around us.
Set a positive tone through gratitude and appreciation and have the healthy relationship you desire.
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