How To Fall In Love And Keep Love Alive
The overwhelming emotion of being in love is exceeded by the deep anguish of falling out of love. You feel anguish and regret and promise oneself that you will not fall victim of that emotion again. But it got you thinking that what if things were a little different, or if you've handled the situation a little different would it have lasted forever?
In my opinion they key points in keeping a lasting commitment is to keep the chemistry alive, always enjoy each others company, acceptance of each others flaws, deserve each other's trust, treat and earn your partner's respect and always talk to each other no matter what.
Ok, so what if you know for sure that the once ecstasy of love you've felt is lost? You can't recapture lost love and romance but you have something better, something more durable than what you've previously had. You have a more mature love that has stood beyond time. Love is a two ways street or as the song goes, but if you are really serious in keeping the relationship alive you can work on your street and your partner's. This for sure will wake him up and devote him to do his half and hopefully meet you halfway.
Falling in love and staying there is not easy job and it takes a lot of work and commitment to continue falling in love even if are too lazy to do it. You have to create the love that you deserve instead of just waiting for it to happen. You have to accept the person as they are and don't even think of changing them because you think its right. Once you let that person into your life, always leave the past behind and create new loving memories from here on. Make you understand and respect each others differences. If your partner doesn't reciprocate the same feeling, then you are in trouble.
To fall in love and stay there, you have to be committed to each other, it has to make sense and feel right and both of you have to work hard to keep the love alive. You must kill signs of resistance and denial in the early stage of the relationship so optimism and hope will follow. Love is not about being entitled, that's being selfish, and you deserve love.
In my opinion they key points in keeping a lasting commitment is to keep the chemistry alive, always enjoy each others company, acceptance of each others flaws, deserve each other's trust, treat and earn your partner's respect and always talk to each other no matter what.
Ok, so what if you know for sure that the once ecstasy of love you've felt is lost? You can't recapture lost love and romance but you have something better, something more durable than what you've previously had. You have a more mature love that has stood beyond time. Love is a two ways street or as the song goes, but if you are really serious in keeping the relationship alive you can work on your street and your partner's. This for sure will wake him up and devote him to do his half and hopefully meet you halfway.
Falling in love and staying there is not easy job and it takes a lot of work and commitment to continue falling in love even if are too lazy to do it. You have to create the love that you deserve instead of just waiting for it to happen. You have to accept the person as they are and don't even think of changing them because you think its right. Once you let that person into your life, always leave the past behind and create new loving memories from here on. Make you understand and respect each others differences. If your partner doesn't reciprocate the same feeling, then you are in trouble.
To fall in love and stay there, you have to be committed to each other, it has to make sense and feel right and both of you have to work hard to keep the love alive. You must kill signs of resistance and denial in the early stage of the relationship so optimism and hope will follow. Love is not about being entitled, that's being selfish, and you deserve love.
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