So gentlemen you have recently lost your girl and now you want to know how to get back your girl? First and foremost this is probably a time where you emotions are running wild and are not in check.
So get yourself together and get your emotion in line before you start trying anything.
Now, what did you do to cause your girl to leave? (probably cheating or something along those lines) If it was your fault your girl left you need to start by APOLOGIZING to her, find a way to get in contact with her.
Call her, text her, send her a MySpace message but do it in a civilized manner.
Don't stalk her or anything like that.
By apologizing to her you are showing a sign of respect.
She probably left you because you disrespected her in one form or another.
Think about what attracted your girl to you in the first place.
Do you still have these special qualities.
If not get yourself back to being that person.
That is the person your girl fell in love with not the man who recently cheated on her.
Be prepared for you girl to give you the cold shoulder for a while.
You hurt this girl in one way or another and she may need some time to regain her trust in you.
Was their something in your relationship that you girl could not stand about you? It may have been a bad habit, or something you always like to wear, or something you did not do right in the relationship.
Whatever it may have been changed it about yourself and find a way to let it be know to her and bring it to her attention.
Try to make contact with her but do not over due it.
You don't want to put any pressure on her to take you back.
If you know you the reason for the break up was all your fault.
Let her know that you agree with her decision and ask her what she needs.
If she says sometime time apart then give her what she needs.
Fullfil her every desire and you will come off as the understanding and caring boyfriend.
Actions speak louder than words when it come to trying to get back your girl.