Today I want to talk about how to win back the love of your life.
Too many people go about doing this the wrong way.
Many people think they have to aggressively go after their ex in order to get him or her back.
In fact, that is the opposite of what you should do! If you want to get your ex back, follow the the advice in this article closely.
The first thing you need to know is that you do not want to chase your ex! Instead, let things work out a little more slowly and they will naturally get better and you can save your relationship with a few tricks.
Too many guys think they must pursue their ex.
Many times they will send a lot of text messages, emails, or call them constantly.
Other times, people will try to send flowers and gifts to get attention.
Some people even resort to stalking (which you should obviously never do).
These techniques are bad because they make you look...
desperate.
Women tend to like "alpha" males, not needy men who seem desperate.
If you seem too desperate, your ex will start to play head games with you.
She'll let you come over, and then invite a new guy over too.
She'll pretend she's interested only to go off in another direction.
And the more you fall into the trap, the more head games she will play.
This is not the answer for how to win back your ex and start a better relationship.
Instead of chasing your ex around and seeming desperate, you have to play your own games that make your ex want to come back to you.
When you are with a group of people, including your ex, pretend to flirt with everyone in the group except for your ex.
If she has an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that person.
By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you.
You are reminding her of all your charms, but not applying them to her..
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which will make her a little jealous and she will WANT you to give her your attention again.
It's a good idea to go on a date with a couple of her friends.
You could try sending your ex a text message saying, "now that we are just friends again, can I ask for your advice? Where should I take Karen to dinner after the movie?" That is a sure-fire way to make your ex a little jealous and she will want you back.
Even if you don't want to play head games with your ex, you can still use one strategy...
be happy.
Women want to date happy guys.
Rather than acting needy or desperate, try to act calm, cool, and happy.
Working on improving yourself is a good way of getting attention from your ex.
Going to the gym for a workout, hanging out with friends, or doing some of your hobbies is a good idea.
Go on some dates.
As long as you appear to be happy on your own, your ex will realize that she is the unhappy one and will want to get back together.