When a relationship breaks up it almost always common that one or both of the partners realizes how deep their feelings are and how they will do anything to reestablish the broken relationship.
Depending how badly the relationship ended, it could be a difficult task to revive.
Maybe the point of communication has been shot off.
Maybe the places that both of you use to go to are not places that they don't go to anymore.
There has to be enough that has passed in order for your partner to reflect and realize what they are willing to accomplish.
Respecting them during this time apart is important.
Each situation is different and the amount of this cooling off time is difficult to anticipate.
But, when it is appropriate, you need to let them know that you do care.
Let them know the depth that you care and the possibility of working things out.
I know this is a confusing and delicate matter, but there is a way.
Contact them at an appropriate time and fin out if they are will to catch up.
Be prepared.
Expect that they may be cold to the idea.
Be ready with a request to come to peace with the situation.
Maybe telling them you have a few things that you need to apologize for and if they would mind meeting for coffee or lunch.
This would be obviously the direct approach.
There are other approaches that are affective, depending on the situation.
Possibly someone that you and your partner both trust and know to be mutually concerned.
They need to know that you really want not get back together and your sincerity.
They may not want to get involved so it would be a good idea not to constantly ask them for such a big favor.
The honesty that you show about your sincerity in renewing your relationship is your main goal will be very important.
Maybe the best communication is to write a letter that is short and sincere.
Make sure you take the time to review the letter before sending it so that you are confident you have stated what you truly feel.
When you are trying to re-establish contact with someone where a relationship has ended badly you have to be sincere and open yourself up for a rejection.
You will need to give them relationship in a civil manner.
These are just potential ways of establishing the communication that is needed to salvage what is important to you.
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