Trying to overcome a break up is no easy task.
You can make the break up go away if you feel it is worth it and work hard to stop it.
Below are some ways you can prevent it from happening.
Spend some time apart Take some time apart for a couple weeks or so.
Sometimes just getting away from each other for a while can help defuse an argument which will cause the break up.
Being apart can help your nerves calm down and give you time to think things through to see how you can fix the relationship Can you change If you find you are the one that is messing things up, are you willing to make the changes necessary to mend your relationship? If you say you can change but deep down inside you have doubts, you may not go through with it.
At least admitting your mistakes would be a good start, it shows you are facing up to them.
Make an apology You need to apologize for these mistakes if you want to keep your relationship going.
And, this apology must be heart felt, not just a generic sorry.
Your partner must feel like you are sincere when you tell them this.
Admit your mistakes Many people make mistakes in their relationships.
If you can admit to them and face up to them, you can be on your way to fixing things, admitting to them is a positive thing to do.
Now you must not repeat these mistakes or all bets are off.
Try counseling Think about counseling, many couple go to counseling to improve their relationships.
A counselor will see things that a couple does not see and help make corrections.
If your partner has no interest in going, think about going on your own, this at least shows you are making an attempt to make improvements.