Are you asking "how do I get back with my ex after a breakup?" If you are then you need an action plan and not just sit and ponder with yourself.
You see the longer you wait the harder it may be to get your ex back and even worse, he/she may find someone new and forget about you.
Don't worry though! I am about to share with you some tips that you can use to get your ex back even if you think it is impossible.
Firstly, you must know what triggered the breakup.
It must have been something you said or done that caused your ex to make up his/her mind and call it quits.
Also it can be something that you never did.
Yes you could have been neglecting your ex and not giving he/she the attention, care and love that they desire.
Therefore, stop and think real hard to find out the exact cause of the breakup and then you will be ready for your next move to get back together with your ex.
Once you have found out the cause, you need to apologize.
Even if it is not totally your fault, you need your ex to know that you are sorry and you still love and care for him/her.
This may be hard for you but you have to swallow your pride if you really want the relationship to work.
A point you should note also, is that you must not prolong the apology and try to beg and plea for your x to take you back.
The reason for this is hat begging will be seen as a sign of weakness and will force your ex to push you even further away.
Next you need to give him/her some alone time.
It can be very annoying for him/her to have to bothering them all day.
So it is very important the you avoid all contact for a while so that your ex can sort out his/her head.
After a couple of weeks your ex will be missing you and then you will have the window of opportunity to get back together.