Quick Strategies to Get Your Boyfriend Back
Your boyfriend just left and slammed the door swearing he will never come back.
Sound familiar? What if I can show you some strategies to make him change his mind? I know you are serious about getting him back because you are reading this article.
Can you remember back to a time when you two were a new item and so very much in love.
Lets start with those images.
That is your new goal, renewal.
This is going to be the most difficult thing I am going to ask you to do, STOP calling and texting him! Human nature tells us that he is going to ignore the calls at best and not be very friendly if he does answer.
By stopping all communication with him you are now going to start rebuilding something good.
Time is on your side as the old adage says...
"Time makes the heart grow fonder" This actually is going to work for you because if you are not always available, he will start to miss you.
I am going to suggest the you go out with friends, see a movie or even make new friends.
Just do not sit by the phone waiting for his call.
Give yourself some breathing room as well.
During this time you are learning new things and he is wondering what is going on with you as he is used to you always being there.
He needs to realize that you are a vibrant and fabulous woman and he misses you! Let 2-3 weeks go by and then maybe give him a QUICK call to "see how he is".
Make it a short call as you do want him to know that you are getting on with life and that the thought of him "just popped into your head".
Remember, no more than 5 minutes, use an egg timer if you have to.
You will take your next clues from his reaction.
Can you hear the curiosity in his voice? Does he suggest meeting? Do not worry if he doesn't, it may just mean that he needs more time to "miss" you.
Give him another 2-3 weeks and call again.
You may be surprised though and find that with the new stuff going on in your life its you that may not want him back.
Not to worry, its your life! But, if he is still in your thoughts all the time then the answer is obvious.
Remember to be cool and do not smother him.
Let him come to you.
Do not forget that YOU are worth the effort.
Be mysterious and you will find that he will come around and will be asking you for another chance to make your relationship work.
Just remember what you have learned and never forget to remain someone he cannot take for granted.
Sound familiar? What if I can show you some strategies to make him change his mind? I know you are serious about getting him back because you are reading this article.
Can you remember back to a time when you two were a new item and so very much in love.
Lets start with those images.
That is your new goal, renewal.
This is going to be the most difficult thing I am going to ask you to do, STOP calling and texting him! Human nature tells us that he is going to ignore the calls at best and not be very friendly if he does answer.
By stopping all communication with him you are now going to start rebuilding something good.
Time is on your side as the old adage says...
"Time makes the heart grow fonder" This actually is going to work for you because if you are not always available, he will start to miss you.
I am going to suggest the you go out with friends, see a movie or even make new friends.
Just do not sit by the phone waiting for his call.
Give yourself some breathing room as well.
During this time you are learning new things and he is wondering what is going on with you as he is used to you always being there.
He needs to realize that you are a vibrant and fabulous woman and he misses you! Let 2-3 weeks go by and then maybe give him a QUICK call to "see how he is".
Make it a short call as you do want him to know that you are getting on with life and that the thought of him "just popped into your head".
Remember, no more than 5 minutes, use an egg timer if you have to.
You will take your next clues from his reaction.
Can you hear the curiosity in his voice? Does he suggest meeting? Do not worry if he doesn't, it may just mean that he needs more time to "miss" you.
Give him another 2-3 weeks and call again.
You may be surprised though and find that with the new stuff going on in your life its you that may not want him back.
Not to worry, its your life! But, if he is still in your thoughts all the time then the answer is obvious.
Remember to be cool and do not smother him.
Let him come to you.
Do not forget that YOU are worth the effort.
Be mysterious and you will find that he will come around and will be asking you for another chance to make your relationship work.
Just remember what you have learned and never forget to remain someone he cannot take for granted.
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