Many times in an emergency time will seem to slow down.
You see every detail as it happens.
Not this time though.
Before you realized what was happening, it was gone.
Like a mountain after a mudslide, everything you had worked to build together was gone.
To win your love back is going to be hard, but it can be done.
The first thing to do to win your love back is to see what is left.
Is there anything left to salvage or were there too many harsh words exchanged? A breakup can be a vicious thing and sometimes the damage is too deep to recover from.
Unfortunately, you may need to simply move on if this is the case.
Do you see a glimmer of hope? The next question you need to ask yourself is, is it worth the effort to rebuild? The breakup may have taken too much out of you and you've got nothing left to fight with.
If it's not going to work out anyway do you really want to expend the last of your energy and time beating a dead horse? Does your ex have any interest in getting back with you or are you on your own? If the chances are slim and you are the only one fighting, you might need to chalk it up to experience and move on too.
You've made it this far so you've decided to try to win your love back.
What do you do after a big storm? Clean up! Take a good look at your life and look for things that are dragging you down and making things difficult.
Sweep out the distractions so you can focus on rebuilding your relationship on a good solid foundation.
What was unique about your love? What made you two right for each other? What really makes you want them back? Build on these things for a stronger foundation.
Whatever you start with, do not fall into the trap of rebuilding your relationship exactly the same as before.
If it was not strong enough to last the first time, it will not last a second either.
Your goal is to build it better and stronger.
Take the good things from before and leave the rest.
Start over with a strong foundation and win your love back.