Marriage Break Up Due to World of Warcraft
I was surfing the net yesterday when I came across this on a dating forum.
The thread was about a man whose marriage fell apart after his wife became addicted to playing popular online game World Of Warcraft 24/7...
neglecting her kids and husband and not taking care of the house.
What followed were more amazing accounts of people who had being in similar situations - where marriages or long term relationships ending due to one partner becoming obsessed with a video game and even having online "affairs" with people who also play the game.
I know how addictive these games are, however I believe the relationships that fell apart around these circumstances were likely heading south anyway.
World of Warcraft or any game like it is about escapism from one's life...
one's problems.
Real life isn't quite living up to their standards and in a video game people can assume identities of who they want and be "popular" and "successful".
Relationships are a KEY component to human lives.
If your marriage or love relationship is just not giving you the satisfaction you once felt it did, and you didn't or couldn't face dealing with those issues, you might likely turn to something else simply to use as blinders to the problem.
Replace World Of Warcraft with alcohol, smoking, excess going out, studying, any number of things and you'll see that often times couples do this without even realizing.
Perhaps not to the severity as obtaining a disruptive addiction problem, but the concept remains the same.
One of the key signs that your partner is withdrawing from you emotionally is when they start spending less and less "QUALITY TIME" with you.
Quality time is sharing your thoughts with each other openly, whether about something meaningful or something lighthearted, it could be doing something you each enjoy and want to do together.
It's not being in the same house or room together 24/7 but doing different things.
It's not muttering a few words here and there as a reply to a question.
For women, you know when your man is not there with you in your heart and for a man, you will know when your woman barely looks at you anymore.
If your partner has left, these were likely some signs that showed up prior to your break up.
Perhaps you didn't even want to see them as there, but they were.
Whether it was starting to hang out with friends more, going out more or playing more video games.
Whatever they might have found to substitute spending quality time with you, this is when you know they wanted to avoid a major issue in your relationship.
The problem with that is, those issues never go away...
not in their mind and even after the break up.
It will be temporarily out of the way until they see you again.
If you want to be rid of these problems once and for all, you must start by facing them for what they are and dealing with it from the inside out.
Only then can you get the relationship you want.
Just break up? I want to share with you a very effective system that will help you win back the heart of your loved one - even if there is someone else or your situation feels hopeless! To get started, watch this FREE video + report that will show you the first steps to stopping your break up and finally win back the love of your life.
The thread was about a man whose marriage fell apart after his wife became addicted to playing popular online game World Of Warcraft 24/7...
neglecting her kids and husband and not taking care of the house.
What followed were more amazing accounts of people who had being in similar situations - where marriages or long term relationships ending due to one partner becoming obsessed with a video game and even having online "affairs" with people who also play the game.
I know how addictive these games are, however I believe the relationships that fell apart around these circumstances were likely heading south anyway.
World of Warcraft or any game like it is about escapism from one's life...
one's problems.
Real life isn't quite living up to their standards and in a video game people can assume identities of who they want and be "popular" and "successful".
Relationships are a KEY component to human lives.
If your marriage or love relationship is just not giving you the satisfaction you once felt it did, and you didn't or couldn't face dealing with those issues, you might likely turn to something else simply to use as blinders to the problem.
Replace World Of Warcraft with alcohol, smoking, excess going out, studying, any number of things and you'll see that often times couples do this without even realizing.
Perhaps not to the severity as obtaining a disruptive addiction problem, but the concept remains the same.
One of the key signs that your partner is withdrawing from you emotionally is when they start spending less and less "QUALITY TIME" with you.
Quality time is sharing your thoughts with each other openly, whether about something meaningful or something lighthearted, it could be doing something you each enjoy and want to do together.
It's not being in the same house or room together 24/7 but doing different things.
It's not muttering a few words here and there as a reply to a question.
For women, you know when your man is not there with you in your heart and for a man, you will know when your woman barely looks at you anymore.
If your partner has left, these were likely some signs that showed up prior to your break up.
Perhaps you didn't even want to see them as there, but they were.
Whether it was starting to hang out with friends more, going out more or playing more video games.
Whatever they might have found to substitute spending quality time with you, this is when you know they wanted to avoid a major issue in your relationship.
The problem with that is, those issues never go away...
not in their mind and even after the break up.
It will be temporarily out of the way until they see you again.
If you want to be rid of these problems once and for all, you must start by facing them for what they are and dealing with it from the inside out.
Only then can you get the relationship you want.
Just break up? I want to share with you a very effective system that will help you win back the heart of your loved one - even if there is someone else or your situation feels hopeless! To get started, watch this FREE video + report that will show you the first steps to stopping your break up and finally win back the love of your life.
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