Making Him Fall in Love - It"s Not As Hard As You Think
Are you trying to make him fall in love with you? Do your attempts fail miserably? Do you even know why your desire to pull him in only succeeds in pushing him away? The answers are really a lot simpler than you might think.
Sexual impulses come to men at a rate that would leave many women dizzy.
It's in their make up and it is part of their focus when they look at women.
When lust is at an all time high, some men can confuse their strong desire for a woman with love.
However, once that sexual desire has been taken care of, that mistaken sense of love fades away.
Sure, it would simplify things if we only had to get him into our bed and his heart naturally followed.
A flimsy dress, inviting cleavage and a sexy flip of your hair and you're done.
Well, things are a little different than that.
While a hot body may attract those first glances, it won't keep him attentive long if you have nothing else to offer.
You have to be able to arouse more than just his sexual desire.
Be interested in him as he talks.
Let him know you want to hear all about him.
Compliment him when he mentions a particular accomplishment, and be understanding when he points out a failure.
You want him to leave the date with a sense of pride for the man he is.
He should remember the date fondly as he thinks of the fun and ease with which he opened up to you.
If he's the shy or quiet type who doesn't speak much, take the reigns and open up about yourself, but be aware of the moments when he is prepared to talk.
Don't plow through with your story when he interjects a comment or statement.
Take what he's said and try to get him to open up a bit.
When he's finished, resume your story if he again falls silent.
If, despite his silence, he is attentive and interested in what you have to say, he'll leave the date happy.
When you realize that you're madly in love with him, don't get upset when he doesn't declare his undying love for you.
Men can be slower in developing a true emotional attachment, and pressuring him is not going to help.
Just continue to be the fun person you are and the love will come.
Making him fall in love with you is a matter of tuning in to the man before you.
Be aware of what makes him smile and what shuts him down, and react accordingly.
Don't blindly follow your own agenda at the expense of his feelings.
Sexual impulses come to men at a rate that would leave many women dizzy.
It's in their make up and it is part of their focus when they look at women.
When lust is at an all time high, some men can confuse their strong desire for a woman with love.
However, once that sexual desire has been taken care of, that mistaken sense of love fades away.
Sure, it would simplify things if we only had to get him into our bed and his heart naturally followed.
A flimsy dress, inviting cleavage and a sexy flip of your hair and you're done.
Well, things are a little different than that.
While a hot body may attract those first glances, it won't keep him attentive long if you have nothing else to offer.
You have to be able to arouse more than just his sexual desire.
Be interested in him as he talks.
Let him know you want to hear all about him.
Compliment him when he mentions a particular accomplishment, and be understanding when he points out a failure.
You want him to leave the date with a sense of pride for the man he is.
He should remember the date fondly as he thinks of the fun and ease with which he opened up to you.
If he's the shy or quiet type who doesn't speak much, take the reigns and open up about yourself, but be aware of the moments when he is prepared to talk.
Don't plow through with your story when he interjects a comment or statement.
Take what he's said and try to get him to open up a bit.
When he's finished, resume your story if he again falls silent.
If, despite his silence, he is attentive and interested in what you have to say, he'll leave the date happy.
When you realize that you're madly in love with him, don't get upset when he doesn't declare his undying love for you.
Men can be slower in developing a true emotional attachment, and pressuring him is not going to help.
Just continue to be the fun person you are and the love will come.
Making him fall in love with you is a matter of tuning in to the man before you.
Be aware of what makes him smile and what shuts him down, and react accordingly.
Don't blindly follow your own agenda at the expense of his feelings.
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