At this very moment, your ex is taking you for granted, and as long as this is occurring, you will never get your ex back.
You see, you hand out your time, affection, attention and other assets so easily to your ex because you want him/her back; but all that happens is that your ex takes it all for granted.
You are so easy that it is just plain boring to your ex, so the solution is play hard to get.
Here is how you can pull your ex back using powerful psychological tactics...
Ignore your ex for a few days- Stop calling, stop emailing and stop everything.
When you suddenly go cold on your ex, he/she will feel like you don't care anymore, and will feel rejected.
This feeling will kill your ex deep inside, and your ex will immediately feel a need to prove that he/she is worthy of your attention still.
Your ex will end up wanting you more than he/she ever did before, and will literally go crazy for you then.
Thank your ex in an email- Instead of constantly calling your ex or emailing so many emails that don't work, just send them a simple email thanking them.
Let your ex know that the break up is a good thing, and that you respect his/her decision to be separated from you.
End the letter by telling your ex that you have had so many crazy things happen since then, and some very fun things as well; but do not tell your ex exactly what they are.
This will make your ex so curious, that he/she will be wondering how you moved on so fast and how come you seem to be doing so well.
You see, Because your ex was expecting you to crash and burn, the shock of this will prove to your ex that you are someone who is strong and desirable.