I know what your thinking is it really possible to get my girlfriend back or is it just a bunch of hype? It is possible to get your girlfriend back if you follow these proven steps.
The number one item to get anyone back is to give the other person some space.
My all means do not smother your ex girlfriend by constantly following her, calling her, or even texting her.
You both need a cooling off period to think about your situation and why the break up occurred in the first place.
Any begging her back will only push her further away and ruin your chances of ever seeing her again.
The cooling off period should last no more than four or five weeks and after that time usually she may call you first.
If she does not call you I would suggest maybe sending her a card just reminding her that you are thinking of her.
Now, you have an excuse to call her and ask if she got your card.
You may gently suggest meeting with her over lunch or just a drink.
This is a good time to catch up on what is going on in her life; this will show her that you still care about her life.
Another important item to look at is you.
No matter how close people become it is wise to take a look at you and do the things that you use to do.
Spend time with friends and family and catch up with the free time that everyone needs, take care of you.
Try to avoid a new girlfriend at this time because if you are sincere about reconnecting with your ex girlfriend it would not be fair to a new girlfriend to be with someone who is on the rebound.
If you have any chance at repairing your current relationship, the one thing you do not need is word to get back to your ex that you are dating someone else.
This will only make your ex think that you have moved on destroying any chance of the two of you getting back together again.
If you try these steps to get her back then chances are good that you will have success in rekindling your relationship again.