The sexless wife [http://www.sexlesscouples.com/the-sexless-wife-marriage-frustrated-husbands/] is often the humorous counterpoint to the comedically pathetic husband in many sitcoms, movies and comics but if you are in this situation... it is no laughing matter.

The stress and strain of such a sexless marriage often leads to confidence issues, depression, stress and quite often affairs and divorce.

Here are some way you can try to reverse this with your sexless spouse.

Do not Be Too Hasty

Being romantic and the desirable mate to your wife is essential to rekindling the intimacy but women are not beings to be forced or drawn into such things without a good foundation first.

If you approach the task of getting your wife in the mood too forcefully you will often push them away and set yourself back even further.

Start slowly and treat it like you were back at square one where you needed to seduce your woman. Become friends again and build it up from there even though it might feel a bit silly if you have been married for some time... it will work.

Watch out for the Wall of Resentment

The dam walls of the resentment reservoir can be pressured to breaking point in a sexless marriage. This metaphorical wall or dam will eventually be breached if you do not empty out that resentment that fills it.. in other words... divorce.

However even if you are not at this stage all the petty annoyances and grudges build up inside everyone and put a strain and stress that can lead to a lack of libido and an unwillingness to be giving sexual partners.

Find out what these are and solve them before it is too late!

If you are sick of waiting for your sexless wife to snap out of her rut then you need to take action to fix your sexless relationship. Click below to find out more on how to do this by two people who have been through the same situation.